Would you give your b/f or g/f another chance if you found out that she/he cheated on you? To be more specific, nothing really happened physically. She/he just started developing feelings for someone else. Also, the fact that you've had suspicions before about him/her cheating, makes the case stronger. Now, in my opinion, that's enough to leave him/her. Cheating is cheating, there is no in between. If she/he was "looking" for someone else, why not just end it right then and there right? So, basically, would you end a relationship based on the fact that your significant other developed feelings for someone else? Which he/she says is now gone.
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Sunshyne Jones
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if you can't trust then you can't trust and you needs ta move on -- they can win your trust back ... but that's up to them to do and you to be the judge of
daddyiwantchocolate
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a) if you're a guy, fuck her in the ass.
b) if you're a chick, fuck his best friend.
c) (seriously) only you can make that decision. personally, I'd talk to the person and figure it out. If you can't trust them even though they insist they're trustworthy - either you're a sucker or you're too insecure.
b) if you're a chick, fuck his best friend.
c) (seriously) only you can make that decision. personally, I'd talk to the person and figure it out. If you can't trust them even though they insist they're trustworthy - either you're a sucker or you're too insecure.
afterglow
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I didn't know that when two people are in a relationship, the whole world dissappears entirely forever?
Other people are out there. People connect. It's only a problem if they so something physical about it or if the relationship starts to hurt because of it.
Who knows though. Every situation is different.
Other people are out there. People connect. It's only a problem if they so something physical about it or if the relationship starts to hurt because of it.
Who knows though. Every situation is different.
daddyiwantchocolate
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haha, there are so many things I could post right now that would have me in stitches, but I'll refrain.
sorry for your situation circle :| seriously, sounds like you need to talk it out...
sorry for your situation circle :| seriously, sounds like you need to talk it out...
j bunny 2000
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I would only be worried that this person is going outside the relationship to confide in someone else and not you, that's where you should be concerned. At least she has been honest with you about this other person, she is probably crying out for attention because things are not quite right between the two of you. Maybe she just doesn't feel comfortable talking to you about certain things, which isn't really good in a relationship.
I dont think it is cheating, but it could lead to that if you don't fix the problem.
I dont think it is cheating, but it could lead to that if you don't fix the problem.
rubytuesday
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If the girl wants to work things out and acknowledges that it wasn't healthy to put herself in a situation where she would develop feelings for someone else, then I think it is workable.
People make bad choices sometimes and it's possible to learn from mistakes without having to break up over it. Relationships can go through cycles where you're not really sure of what you want, it doesn't mean it has to end.
People make bad choices sometimes and it's possible to learn from mistakes without having to break up over it. Relationships can go through cycles where you're not really sure of what you want, it doesn't mean it has to end.