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what? male human get vasectomY??

Discussion in 'TRIBE Main Forum' started by mystique0217, Mar 5, 2002.

  1. mystique0217

    mystique0217 TRIBE Member

    yes, i knew that puppies and kittens get that
    to prevent pregnancy..
    and i know that female human can get this stuff..

    but i did not know there is such a thing as male vasectomy!

    it freaked me out..

    i got some of the questions being anwered my dr. stir fry friend...like:
    -can you have sex?
    -do you still get sperms?

    but my question to you all tribers is:
    -how do you keep your sexual self healthy?
    cause i have heard from male friends that
    they need to get rid of the sperms from the balls
    to keep them healthy..so therefore, they do masterbate just like womyn do..

    but if the tube that sperms travel is cut,
    where those made sperms go? like..
    you can no longer get rid of them
    even you masterbate?? :confused:

    i kind of have this idea where male tend to gain the masculinity as they see their body being *male* and what not..

    so when the young little boys get their *spermy stuff* happening on their body, it is like *i am the man now* or something like that
    as to girls getting period and thinking: "woah..i am a woman now! rape me someone and get me pregnant"..

    anyway, when women get their menopause, they
    seem to get all upset..because to them, it is like they are losing the sense of being *woman* anymore.. and is a such a sad thing..

    and this thought above made me to wonder:
    "wouldn't male who get vasectomy also think they are no longer the man???"

    i am a bit lost..lol

    about the story that my friend told me though, was i fooled by my male friend telling me that men need to get rid of the sperms to keep them stay healthy in the first place??

    things are weird on our body..isn't it?

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  3. Rosey

    Rosey TRIBE Member

    really? strange.

    between sex ed and school and the "what's happening to my body book for boys' that my parents gave me i had knew way too much about all the options by the time i was 12.
  4. Che

    Che TRIBE Member

    Yup, it was pretty painless.

    Highly recommended

  5. kodos

    kodos TRIBE Member

    is the goop the same?
  6. Boo

    Boo TRIBE Member

    Did you really not know about a vasectomy?!?!

    It was even in a Seinfeld episode. For some reason I actually know quite a bit on this.

    You still ejactulate, white stuff and all, but it just doesn't contain any sperm. The procedure can even be reversed. Its a very simple procedure where a tube is cut and is done in a half an hour with no hospital stay.

    This differs completly from castration where your testicals are removed completely.

    For some reason, castrated men live an average of 15 years longer than those with their boys in tact! :eek:
  7. Boo

    Boo TRIBE Member

    I don't want to sound like I'm making fun here. But yes Men DO masturbate just like women do.... you thought it was women that just did it?

    And if your friends are telling you that they just do it because they have to be healthy. LOL They do it cause playing with your weiner feels good :D
  8. mystique0217

    mystique0217 TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: what? male human get vasectomY??

    well, rosey, i grew up in JAPAN
    where sexual education is so behind compared to it is in north america..

    the teachers only tell you the difference on the male/female bodies..and they taught us about birth control method such as condoms..but never birth control pills..(the first sexual education class was like when i was 10)
    in fact, the regulation for the birth control pills became more open and publicized like 3 years ago!

    and during my junior highschool, they would actually teach us more about sperms and eggs..and how a human is borned..
    from the female's side of view..like how the pregnancy takes place..whatever..but
    never on the birth control side or on male's body.

    i bet all the kids learn all these shites during junior highschool,
    and when i came to north america and attended highschool, it was like: everyone knew things..so there is no need to teach again..

    so therefore, i never got any education during my highschool..so i did not learn things more than i needed to know..lol

    isn't world kind of scary without knowledge?

  9. mystique0217

    mystique0217 TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: what? male human get vasectomY??

    i know..but
    this dude mentioned one of the reasons for the need to masterbation is to stay healthy..
    i think it makes sense though..
    either it was to get rid of sperms or just get released and feel all good..
  10. Boo

    Boo TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: Re: what? male human get vasectomY??

    I've read an excellent book on this topic. And releasing sperm does not make or keep you healthy, actually the oposite. You lose a lot of essential vitamins and sugar in seamen and actually takes a drain on your body... another reason guys feel tired afterwards.

    I've even heard theories that the loss of seamen is the difference between the life expectancy of men and women.

    Knowledge is definately important though. Studies have found that those with more sex education actually have sex older then those that don't.

    Its scary to think there's guys out there that think that pulling out is actually a good form of birth control :rolleyes:
  11. Doll

    Doll TRIBE Member

    I think I can speak for most of the women on this board when I say that I find this statement offensive. No woman ever thinks "rape me someone". I'm pretty sure you didn't mean it offensively but it's not something to joke about.

    Apart from that, men have been getting vasectomy's as long as women have been getting their tubes tied. It's a very safe proceure, and can even be reversed. I think it's a very responsible thing for men to do if a) they've had children and don't want anymore or b) don't want children and are scared at the thought of some woman calling them up saying "remember that night when you were drunk and we forgot to use a condom/ the condom broke....".

    I know men who've had it done and they don't have a problem with their masculinity afterwards. In fact, because there are no worries about conception, they tend to be more "up for it" than before.

  12. SlipperyPete

    SlipperyPete TRIBE Member

    those 15 years are filled with mostly rage, agony and strife.
    no gonads.
    kind of like a hell on earth.
  13. mystique0217

    mystique0217 TRIBE Member

    thanks boo for the message.

    but the funny thing is that north american kids become sexually active younger than the japanese kids in general..

    i sort of wonder if this *having the knowledge* actually make kids think psychologically that they are ready for the sexual actions??

    cause as for me, like i said, i did not have the knowledge about male organs and how it function too much that i was rather a *chicken* about all these being sexually active and all these body language actions that we do not have in japan (like hugging and showing affections and what not)..

    i still remember myself all freaked out and my heart pumping so fast as if i was having a heart attack when a boy who i really liked walked me home when i was 14..lol

    i really do have had a fear to being physically/sexually being involved with a gender that i did not really know about..
    so it kept me away from being all affectionate for a long time..lol

    i am glad that i got to learn things from my b.f.s in the end when i actually became more interested in those things as i got older though..and i sort of think that it was perhaps a good thing so then i would not have done a silly thing as sharing my body at such a young age..

    anyway, just my thoughts revealing here..cause i am not ashamed of the path i have walked...and it actually make me feel good about myself to talk of my history..lol

    thanks for reading,

  14. JayIsBored

    JayIsBored TRIBE Member

    thats two gonads and strife refereneces in two days, good show old chap!
  15. mystique0217

    mystique0217 TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: what? male human get vasectomY??

    yes, you are right.
    i am very sorry for my comment.
    i was joking around..and of course, it was not funny and was not a joke that is allowed to make like that.

    once again, i am very sorry.
  16. Rosey

    Rosey TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: what? male human get vasectomY??

    or c) they are in a committed relationship with a woman who won't/can't use the pill (it's not exactly harmless or free of side affects you know) and doens't wish to always use condoms.

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