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SEX in private places

Discussion in 'TRIBE Main Forum' started by Eclectic, Mar 13, 2002.

  1. Eclectic

    Eclectic TRIBE Member

    Ok, so what's your ideal "bedroom setting"?

    Lights on/off?
    Firm or soft bed?
    Satin sheets?
    Lots of room to romp?
    Soundproof? (for the screamers;) )

    Myself I prefer a nicely lit bedroom with a HUGE bed to roll around in.

    And it's gotta be hot! I'm talking Jamaica hot. Crank up that heat and I'm a happy guy.

    (ok, I'm bored so sorry if this thread is useless.....I have nothing to do at work)
  2. deep

    deep TRIBE Member

    dim lighting, want to be able to see them so no lights out
    not satin sheets, pretty impractical afterwards
    firmer rather than softer bed, more force that way
    prefer noisy partners as opposed to quiet ones, but I don't really care if anyone else hears

    (I'm bored too)
  3. Bumbaclat

    Bumbaclat TRIBE Member

    A soundproof bedroom? That sounds like something somebody REALLY commited to rape would need.

  4. joey

    joey TRIBE Member

    lights off (but still enough light to see)
    mirrors :)
    a big comforter
    lots of room

    oh, and i kinda like screamers, and kinda girls with long nails..
    okay too much
  5. TheLiquidFairy

    TheLiquidFairy TRIBE Member

    Well seeing as all men have replied so far, I'll reply first for the ladies...

    -lights off but berry scented candles surrounding or just dimmed lighting...
    -fairly cool temperature in the bedroom becuase I'd work up a sweat for sure... no sense in overheating.
    -I'm a bit of a screamer sometimes but I don't care if the neighbours or anyone else hears so soundproofing not really necessary...
    -huge firm bed, not too bouncy...don't want to get hurt now!

    I think that's about it for the "setting"... ;)

  6. joey

    joey TRIBE Member

    *sniff sniff* mmm raspberry ;)
  7. AdamAnt

    AdamAnt TRIBE Member

    I'll second that! I've always said that sex is a winter sport.
  8. mystique0217

    mystique0217 TRIBE Member

    dim lights.
    candles for a fun time in the bathroom ;)
    big firm bed.
    (i have this fantasy to have my session in the love hotel in japan..anyone been there ??)
    is a must.
    my room mates told me some stories about a noizy couple before i moved in..so i need to be quiet.
    or i just hope they are not here when i need to just get off!
    and let go!
    Music preference..hmmm it can be hard bangin techno for a bangin session..or ambient sound..or chilling french deep house session.. i hate to hear some R&B music that my ex room mate always played when he was to have sex with all these girls..it was usually the same..so i knew he was fucking.. :p
    my dream is to have sade's music for the session befoe i die..that would be like a night when i decide to marry someone or something..lol i am keeping her music for that date :)
    (i am so cheesy)
    yes. music is a must.
    i need a lot of bed sheets to change.
    (just to be clean and make sure we are always ready for another session without hesitating our room mates to come into the room..i hated it when my ex was more proud to welcome his room mate to his messy room as if he was trying to tell his room mate we just had it..soo nasty! so i want my room to be clean all the time.. )
    and yes, toys.

    not much of a food person..but water! yes.
    and sushi.. :)


  9. Eclectic

    Eclectic TRIBE Member

    ^^^If I close my eyes I'm there........
  10. Whatever. If I'm lucky enough to win the horizontal mambo lottery, I'll put up with just about anything short of setting my place on fire.

    From the Ministry of can work with the situation

    Prime Minister Highsteppa
  11. pr0nstar

    pr0nstar TRIBE Member

    I thought you put your privates in her privates... so it's always in a private place?

  12. geminigirl

    geminigirl TRIBE Member

    I just love sex!!
  13. mcbee

    mcbee TRIBE Member

    perfect setting?

    they're all good.

    sheets, no sheets, on the couch, lights on or off, no music, chillin' house, dnb, tv, much music, hip hop, hot or cold.....it really doesn't matter.

    its all good. :D

    tip tho....the scent of a freshly cleaned bathroom (ie. sooo much bleach and chlorine smell) is definatley not enjoyable.

  14. sugar

    sugar TRIBE Member

    The bed should be directly on the floor--no bedframe = no squeaking. We broke Timo's old futon, so we do learn from our mistakes.

    Lighting depends entirely on the mood.

    Our walls are pretty much soundproof, so there's no need to worry about making lots of noise (although sometimes I think maybe people walking by in the hall might be able to hear us, but oh well)

    I love my big queen sized bed! Lots of room to move around in, firm for when you want to go hard, yet with a soft upper layer for comfy apres-sex snuggling.

    I prefer to have the window open for fresh air, although I must admit that there is a lot of satisfaction to be had in seeing you and your partner absolutely drenched in sweat.

    Most of the time of course I prefer clean sheets, but there is something to be said for slightly used sheets. I guess it brings me back to being a teenager in a teenaged boy's room at his parents (you know how they tend to neglect things like laundry)...with all the excitement that comes with sneaking off to do it :p
  15. Jazz

    Jazz TRIBE Member

    OMG... you read my mind!!! I think I'm in love :D

    I never thought of the Sushi part.... but it's my fave food, so why not! Just call me George Costanza...
  16. Cydome

    Cydome TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: SEX in private places

    Or somebody who likes loud music, and has a great stereo to listen to it on, but unfortunatly still lives at home :(

    CY <---wishes he had a soundproof bedroom!
  17. dicksherwood

    dicksherwood TRIBE Member

    mmm...sushi...baby let me cover you in soy, place wasabi in your sexual places and I'll dip my nigiri all night long!!

    I love pulling out the candles cause I want to see my gorgeous girl but I don't want to be squinting in any kind of bright light. A big bed is a must so that things can get....athletic

    Last night I had Llorca playing, he's a French deep house DJ, very similar to St.Germaine with that wicked jazziness and that set the mood nicely. Plus some tasty lotion for the pre-main event massage and you're good to go.

    I'm a fan of outdoor places and sex under pressure but there's nothing like a a quiet private place where the two (or more) of you can relax, with no pressure, take your time and have all amenities close by.


  18. poker face

    poker face TRIBE Member

    I like it anyway!
  19. Cheeka

    Cheeka TRIBE Member

    you forgot stationary. that is also key!

    ie: one that doesn't vibrate off the wall beside your roomates head :p
  20. sweetpea

    sweetpea TRIBE Member

    Firm bed - no squeaking a must!
    Comfy covers that usually end up on the floor :D
    Fresh air or a fan
    music or no music
  21. dicksherwood

    dicksherwood TRIBE Member

    How about a 21" monitor showing showing full screen, downloaded euro porn with the sound turned off?

    not that I've done that or anything...

  22. QueenOfSwords

    QueenOfSwords TRIBE Member

    Stellar idea!

    Omg, what an awesome idea, Dick!
    *hooking up monitor*

    So on it.

  23. sweetpea

    sweetpea TRIBE Member

    Ha , no thanks:D
  24. mcbee

    mcbee TRIBE Member

    ^^^ha ha ha!!
    my old roommates and i were sad to part ways when i moved out, but this was one of the things she WASN'T going to miss about me!!

  25. BigBadBaldy

    BigBadBaldy TRIBE Member

    I prefer:

    Seat down, Glade Plug~In Air freshener/night light casting a warm glow and a big wad of toilet paper ready for clean-up.


    If she gives it too hard with the seat up, I tend to fall in.

    Not that I have sex anymore.. :(

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