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Please help me CHANGE.

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I think I have gotten off on the wrong foot with a lot of people on this board. I am a very opinionated person and my opinion does differ from a lot of people on this board.
Most of my posts are usually a reflection of how I feel but others are just me joking around being an ass.
When I first started posting I was attacked by everyone even though I tryed my best not to insult anyone, so I was forced to fight back.
I did not come on this board to make enemies believe it or not I came on to make friends.
We all share a love for electronic music.
My girlfriend say this board and asked who I was, when I told her she was disgusted and made me realize what an ass I was being.
I realilized especially what a jerk I am when Mcbee and Vinder start trashing me, two of the more moderate people on this board.
Part of the problem is posting when drunk, I really don't mean to insult.
What I am trying to say is that I truly am sorry.
I just hope you guys can find it in your heart to give me a second chane.
I will still be opinionated and might not agree with everyones posts but with your help I can try and change my attitude. Please Help!

Sincerely yours

Pest
 

PosTMOd

Well-Known TRIBEr
Considering I've probably pissed you (and quite possibly others ;) ) off the most, I'll extend a brand new welcome to you.

Welcome to the board. Just don't get too nice, or we'll be bored to shit.

*shake*
 
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Wow I never expected you to say that thanks. You were one of the ones that gave me a hardest time, you do put up a good fight and know how to push my buttons. Don't worry I will never let this board become boring, I just have to learn to knock off all the insults thats all.
 

Rosey

TRIBE Member
bygones is bygones

well this is unexpected, i'm impressed. :)

remember when posting drunk, you have to tell people that you are drunk and misspell words, as if you were slurring when typing. that way people will know and make allowances. ask james (highsteppa), he'll tell you all about it. ;)

welcome to the days of our tribe,
peace,
-ross
 

Pyrovitae

TRIBE Member
:)

i like seeing people who are willing to make a change for the better. regardless if it's by adjusing their attitude or having a new perspective on life.

and i also knew, pest, that you would become addicted to this message board. remember that this *is* a text-based world, and while they *are* just words it might be a good idea to mind yours every once in awhile. flies, honey, alla that.

play nice.

*muah*
~N <---not that i'm one to talk.;)
 
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It's all good. Don't change too much or you'll lose a sense of your identity. I like how this board has so many different characters:

There's evil, benevolent, intelligent, nasosmart, happy, lame, focused, trippin', cute, soft, cuddly, ugly, badteeth, fashionable, jittery, jolly, quaint, tender, beautiful, kind, quiet, testy, tricky, lazy, tough, bright, magnificent, crazy, ditzy, dull, nasty, wide-eyed, sad, friendly, nosy, scary, yummy and funny people on this site.

Bein' yourself and not being too much of an ass is all anyone can ask for.
 

atomic

TRIBE Member
I think all you gotta do is not trash talk people so much, dude. you have a strong opinion, which is good. I think if you side more with rational debate instead of insults, you'll be much better off.
 

dlerium88

TRIBE Member
:eek: Wow...who woulda thunk it. Then again you've never really pissed me off...but that's cool of you nonetheless..

p.s. half the guys giving you a hard time on this board are actually nice guys hiding behind asshole exteriors...but shhh its a secret!!
 
Originally posted by Pest

When I first started posting I was attacked by everyone even though I tryed my best not to insult anyone, so I was forced to fight back.




I don't think so.

From the Ministry of you took a shot at a lot of people first.

Prime Minister Highsteppa
 
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I think most of the time I do have a valid point and many people agree with me but I guess I say it the wrong way and that seems to piss everyone off.
Well I am turning over a new leaf.
I hope everyone on here reads this thread.
It's weird if this had been one of my evil posts we would probably be on page 2 or 3 by now.
 

Silverback

TRIBE Member
Ugh! This reminds me of my mother <whiney voice> it's not what you say it's how you say it</whiney voice>

<--- Hates admitting to her that she can be right. :)
 
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I am really a nice person when you get to know me. Hopefully I will see some of you tonight at Carl Cox. I will be the one going nuts at Jen's bar!
 

mingster

TRIBE Member
I don't wanna be hard on you dude, so please don't take this the wrong way, but tell me, what do you mean by "Please Help!"? What exactly do you need TRIBERS to help you with?

Your relationships to others on the board are a direct result of your interactions with them. As they are with anybody else. You are solely responsible for them. Help yourself.

Ming.
 

ADT

TRIBE Member
^^^ Pest is my favorite person on the BB

:D

has been for a while..

mainly because BB haters are such wankers..

and so many people seem to hate him..

therefore, they must be wankers..

of course, that could mean that pest is the center of the BB hater universe..

and therefore the source of all wankerdom..

but my logic was shit from the beginning....

:rolleyes:

sometime i forget alot of you people actually know eachother.. anyway...

GO PEST :D

v..abstractdatatype

 
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Lil'Timmy

TRIBE Promoter
Originally posted by mingster
I don't wanna be hard on you dude, so please don't take this the wrong way, but tell me, what do you mean by "Please Help!"? What exactly do you need TRIBERS to help you with?

Your relationships to others on the board are a direct result of your interactions with them. As they are with anybody else. You are solely responsible for them. Help yourself.

Ming.

DING DING DING DING DING!
You are correct sir! Alex, tell her what's she's won!

Yet another sense-making fact from the Mingster.
Her points are valid Pest old sport. Just don't be a jackass, or be a jackass...whatever, but expect the boomarang to hit you in the ass if you decide the latter.
 

dlerium88

TRIBE Member
Um maybe he's asking for people to help give him a second chance..a fresh start.

Tribers need to give him that chance that he wants..if he was going to just suddenly change, but everyone still looked at him the same way their perception of him is still going to be negative and people will be more likely to jump on him for little things that they wouldnt necessarily jump on other people for.

Now that he's posted this thread, it may help to change some peoples perception of his posts, and then the negativity will be lessened.

I'm not sure if I explained that properly...but I'm sure someone will figure out what I mean :p

Ritika
 
Originally posted by dlerium88
Now that he's posted this thread, it may help to change some peoples perception of his posts, and then the negativity will be lessened.

Ritika
One thread doesn't do it. Deed and the word goes hand in hand, and we'll see following this if there's merit to what he says. I hope he means it. I'm all for a fresh start. This is a tightly knit community, but it's not like we can't welcome new people in the fold, and it's not like we haven't before either.

But like my man Bill Cosby said:

"You never get a second chance to make a first impression"

If Pest is serious about this, then I'm sure he realizes what kind of damage he has done to his own name. And I'm quite certain, that if he's serious, he realizes he has a lot of reconciling to do.

Trust is not given, it is earned.

From the Ministry of not against Pest, or anyone that supports him, but if he wants the respect of others, its not going to come easy.

Prime Minister Highsteppa
 

Mr_Furious

TRIBE Member
Originally posted by Pest
I think I have gotten off on the wrong foot with a lot of people on this board. I am a very opinionated person and my opinion does differ from a lot of people on this board.
Most of my posts are usually a reflection of how I feel but others are just me joking around being an ass.
that's exactly why you should use more tact when posting things on the internet. People can't tell that you're joking.

When I first started posting I was attacked by everyone even though I tryed my best not to insult anyone, so I was forced to fight back.
Not entirely true,....you made a lot of derogatory comments from the right from the start.

I did not come on this board to make enemies believe it or not I came on to make friends.
We all share a love for electronic music.
then stop complaining about sausages....nobody on here cares

My girlfriend say this board and asked who I was, when I told her she was disgusted and made me realize what an ass I was being.
I realilized especially what a jerk I am when Mcbee and Vinder start trashing me, two of the more moderate people on this board.
Its a pity that you had to take such a harsh slap in the face from reality before you made that realization

What I am trying to say is that I truly am sorry.
I just hope you guys can find it in your heart to give me a second chance.
I think everyone deserves a second chance....apology accepted ;)

I think you should be warned.....many people are reluctant to give second chances, and even more people are reluctant to give third chances....but if you treat everyone with equal respect, the same will be given.

Welcome to Tribe....
 

Pyrovitae

TRIBE Member
Re: Re: Please help me CHANGE.

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aw, i love you will.:D pluuuuuuur!

and james, bill cosby might have some words of wisdom occasionally, but his books *suck*. the fact that he's producing a fat albert live action movie, (and directing it,) *sucks*. and jello pudding pops...well no, they're good.

*muah*
~N

it'll be interesting to see the interaction towards you now, pest. i wish you well.
 
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Originally posted by el presidente Highsteppa
"You never get a second chance to make a first impression"
That bastard jayisbored tells me this all the time and then prances away.
 

dlerium88

TRIBE Member
Originally posted by el presidente Highsteppa


One thread doesn't do it. Deed and the word goes hand in hand, and we'll see following this if there's merit to what he says. I hope he means it. I'm all for a fresh start. This is a tightly knit community, but it's not like we can't welcome new people in the fold, and it's not like we haven't before either.


Prime Minister Highsteppa
Now don't get me wrong..its not like I"m saying people are going to look at his posts like he was a completely new person..but making this thread might help to reduce the pessimism that some look at his posts with...(ok now Im not even speaking proper english!!)

You can already see a difference although people may be reluctant to take his apology fully, they're responses are still "nicer" than I think they would be to other things he has posted...
 
Re: Re: Re: Please help me CHANGE.

Originally posted by Pyrovitae
and james, bill cosby might have some words of wisdom occasionally,


Occasionally? Try often!

but his books *suck*.


Agreed. I read parenthood and wasn't too amused. Paul Reiser ain't exactly coming up smelling like roses with his books either.

the fact that he's producing a fat albert live action movie,


Yes, I'm not exactly crazy about the idea either

(and directing it,)


Actually it's Forrest Whittaker who's directing. Big black guy who was in Good Morning Vietnam, Bird, Ghost Dog - Way of the Samurai, Species, Bloodsport and the upcoming Panic Room.



I said the same thing about Lord of the Rings remember?

And I'm told it's going to be along the lines of The Brady Bunch movies... I was surprised at how funny I found that.

and jello pudding pops...well no, they're good.

*muah*
~N
Agreed

From the Ministry of hack and slash.

Prime Minister Highsteppa
 

pr0nstar

TRIBE Member
I didn't read the whole thread.

But Don't fucking change... Tribe is ASS lately with you causing shit.
If you stop causing shit, this board will probably fade away :D
It's only a board... cause shit... be an asshole.

pr0nstar
 
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