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I remember sitting in the audience section at City Hall months b4 idance, watching the proceedings to get a lay of the land. There was maybe 6 people in the gallery. Lastman was saying crazy shit about something and I smiled. He stood up, pointed at me in the gallery and said "What are you smiling at?" which was kind of shocking to me but I smiled even more and he said it again in a more hostile way b4 moving his attention elsewhere. He was a dick.
 

Bernnie Federko

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I remember sitting in the audience section at City Hall months b4 idance, watching the proceedings to get a lay of the land. There was maybe 6 people in the gallery. Lastman was saying crazy shit about something and I smiled. He stood up, pointed at me in the gallery and said "What are you smiling at?" which was kind of shocking to me but I smiled even more and he said it again in a more hostile way b4 moving his attention elsewhere. He was a dick.
I'll never forget the shiner he had one PRIDE because his wife had socked him after it came out he had an illegitimate love child in South America. Or him sending street people from North York downtown when he was their mayor. Or offering to bus them to Buffalo later on as the mega city one. Or the W.H.O debacle, or the Savages of Africa line. He was really crazy.
 

Bernnie Federko

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Joan Didion — a cultural narrator whose essays examining the phenomenon of the 1960s remain a national treasure, and whose spare prose was as precise as a surgeon’s knife — died at 87 from complications of Parkinson's disease.

A longtime student of Didion's work tells me: "It was her profound examination of grief in 'The Year of Magical Thinking' [published 2005] that made her a household name. That unflinching look, as she narrates the death of her husband and daughter in the same year, is quintessential Didion.
"The vulnerability and the steel, the clean lines depicting the chaos and trauma of grief and loss. Readers trusted her narration. And for some who couldn’t find the words, they were comforted because she had them."
"The Sacramento-born author influenced a generation of writers with her cool detachment, humor and acute observations of American politics and culture," the L.A. Times writes. From the L.A. Times obit:

The author bridged the worlds of Hollywood, journalism and literature in a career that arced most brilliantly in the realms of social criticism and memoir.
Her essays explored an eccentric range of subjects — shopping malls, John Wayne, sojourns in Hawaii and havoc in Haight-Ashbury — in a style that was edgy, restrained and elegant.
 
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Bernnie Federko

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Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Nobel Peace Prize laureate and veteran of South Africa's struggle against white minority rule, died peacefully today at 90, Reuters reports from Johannesburg.

Why he mattered: Tutu won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1984 for his non-violent opposition to apartheid. A decade later, he witnessed the end of that regime — and chaired a Truth and Reconciliation Commission, set up to unearth atrocities committed during those dark days.

The outspoken Tutu was considered the nation's conscience by both Black and white, an enduring testament to his faith and spirit of reconciliation in a divided nation.

In his final years, he regretted that his dream of a "Rainbow Nation" had yet to come true.
 

Bernnie Federko

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Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Nobel Peace Prize laureate and veteran of South Africa's struggle against white minority rule, died peacefully today at 90, Reuters reports from Johannesburg.

Why he mattered: Tutu won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1984 for his non-violent opposition to apartheid. A decade later, he witnessed the end of that regime — and chaired a Truth and Reconciliation Commission, set up to unearth atrocities committed during those dark days.

The outspoken Tutu was considered the nation's conscience by both Black and white, an enduring testament to his faith and spirit of reconciliation in a divided nation.

In his final years, he regretted that his dream of a "Rainbow Nation" had yet to come true.
 
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Bernnie Federko

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André Leon Talley, the larger-than-life fashion editor who shattered his industry’s glass ceiling when he went from the Jim Crow South to the front rows of Paris couture, parlaying his encyclopedic knowledge of fashion history and his quick wit into roles as author, public speaker, television personality and curator, died on Tuesday. He was 73.

His death, after a series of health struggles, was confirmed by his friend Darren Walker, the president of the Ford Foundation.

“André Leon Talley was a singular force in an industry that he had to fight to be recognized in,” Mr. Walker said, calling him a “creative genius” and noting his ability to craft a persona for himself out of “a deep academic understanding of fashion and design.”

Called “The Only One” by The New Yorker by virtue of his being the rare Black editor at the top of a field that was notoriously white and notoriously elitist, Mr. Talley — 6 feet 6 inches tall — was an unmistakable figure everywhere he went. Given to drama in his personal style (he favored capes, gloves and regal headpieces), his pronouncements (“My eyes are starving for beauty”) and the work he adored, he cultivated an air of hauteur, though his friends knew him for his subcutaneous sentimentality.



He was, said the actress and talk show host Whoopi Goldberg in the 2018 documentary “The Gospel According to André,” “so many things he was not supposed to be.”

He was the receptionist at Interview magazine under Andy Warhol; the Paris bureau chief of Women’s Wear Daily under John Fairchild; the creative director and editor at large of Vogue under Anna Wintour. He helped dress Michelle Obama when she was first lady, was an adviser and a friend to the designer Oscar de la Renta, and became a mentor to the supermodel Naomi Campbell. He cast Ms. Campbell as Scarlett O’Hara in a shoot for Vanity Fair that reimagined “Gone With the Wind” with Black protagonists long before fashion woke up to its own racism.

He was latterly a judge on the TV reality show “America’s Next Top Model,” artistic director of the online retailer Zappos, an adviser to the musician will.i.am’s tech start-up and deeply involved with the Savannah College of Art and Design.

Mr. Talley was a fixture at the Abyssinian Baptist Church in Harlem, where, according to the church’s pastor, the Rev. Dr. Calvin O. Butts III, he arrived with celebrities such as Mariah Carey and Tamron Hall but was known for his serious faith.

“With all his celebrity and globe-trotting he came in the best of times and he showed up in the worst of times,” Mr. Butts said. “He showed up to worship. He supported the church, he gave generously, and his friends loved him.”

Mr. Talley, who was openly gay, lived alone and had little semblance of a romantic life, had no immediate survivors.

Kate Novack, the director of the 2018 documentary, said he was “a classic American success story, but noted that his success “has come at a cost.”

“André is one of the last of those great editors who knows what they are looking at, knows what they are seeing, knows where it came from,” Tom Ford said in the documentary. “André tosses out all these different words and he’s so big and so grand, a lot of people think, ‘This guy is crazy,’ but it’s a fabulous insanity.”

André Leon Talley was born on Oct. 16, 1948, in Washington, D.C., to Alma and William Carroll Talley. From the age of 2 months old, he was raised by his grandmother Bennie Frances Davis in Durham, N.C., where she worked as a maid at the men’s campus of Duke University.

He grew up schooled in the Southern church and good manners, idolizing the Kennedys and obsessed with France and the escape it seemed to offer from a town where college students sometimes stoned him when he crossed campus to buy Vogue and where, he said, he was sexually abused as a child.



He majored in French studies at North Carolina Central University and received a master’s from Brown University, where he wrote his thesis on the influence of Black women in Baudelaire and Flaubert, and in the paintings of Delacroix.

A chance meeting with the editor Carrie Donovan, then working at Vogue, convinced him that he had to move to New York, and in 1974 he volunteered to help Diana Vreeland at the Metropolitan Museum of Art’s Costume Institute.

It was through Mrs. Vreeland, he wrote in his memoir, “The Chiffon Trenches,” released in 2020 by Random House, that “I learned to speak the language of style, fantasy, and literature.” It was also through Mrs. Vreeland that he entered the magazine world, and through Interview that he met Warhol.

“He was constantly trying to grab my crotch,” Mr. Talley later told The New York Times. “It was not a Harvey Weinstein moment. Andy was a charming person because he saw the world through the kaleidoscope of a child. Everything was ‘gee golly wow.’”

At Interview, he also met Karl Lagerfeld, the Fendi designer whose omnivorous cultural tastes and intellect became his lodestar, especially once he joined Women’s Wear Daily and moved to Paris. There, he enjoyed glamorous evenings with Yves Saint Laurent and his acolytes, moving from the chateaus of aristocrats to nouveau nightclubs.



Through it all, Mr. Talley wrote in his memoir, he navigated in his “armor” — specifically, “Banana cable knee socks and elegant moccasins” and “Turnbull & Asser shirts.”

For him, fashion was both inspiration and disguise, camouflage against the racist barbs he experienced, such as being referred to as “Queen Kong.”

It was only in hindsight, Mr. Talley wrote, that he realized “the blinders I had to keep on in order to survive.”

In the late 1980s, his flamboyant tastes and deep fashion knowledge caught the eye of Ms. Wintour, for whom Mr. Talley became adviser, friend and foil, a link to an older, more romantic, less corporate and less bottom-line-oriented age. He even advised Ms. Wintour on her Met Gala outfits.

“What I recall is that I was not so much his protector,” said Ms. Wintour in the documentary. “My fashion history is not so great, and his is impeccable, so I think I learned a lot from him.”



As fashion monstres sacré like Mr. Saint Laurent and Alexander McQueen gave way to more technocratic 9-to-5 designers, Mr. Talley found himself on the outside.

There were “many in that industry who really did love André for his talent,” said Mr. Butts. It was also the case that “there were others who exploited his talent and used it to their advantage,” who “never really gave him respect as a man and were condescending.”

After his memoir was published, he fell out with Ms. Wintour, whom he accused of abandoning him. (In “The Chiffon Trenches,” Mr. Talley suggested she played a somewhat parasitic role in his life, feeding off this energy.)

He had struggled with his weight since his grandmother’s death in 1989, and in recent years was largely isolated in the house in White Plains, N.Y., where he lived, sleeping in a bed Mr. de la Renta gave him. The home became the subject of a lawsuit last year, when the actual owner, his former friend George Malkemus, attempted to evict him (Mr. Talley had a history of bad financial decisions).

Yet, for all his complaints and disillusionment, Mr. Talley continued to believe in the power of the well-placed seam and the perfectly polished shoe, the way the shallowest of objects can transform our deepest aspirations into reality.



“To my 12-year-old self, raised in the segregated South, the idea of a Black man playing any kind of role in this world seemed an impossibility,” he wrote in his memoir. “To think of where I’ve come from, where we’ve come from, in my lifetime, and where we are today, is amazing. And, yet, of course, we still have so far to go.”
 
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