<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by mingster:
For the first time ever!
It's so weird...I'm so proud of him.
Ming. <---being a whore today.</font>
sorry man but this sounds like you need some education as well, I don't know you and please don't feel i am judging you.
Consider my posts part of your education. You cannot influence other people with your opinions and call it education.
You have a very important role in his life and i'm not saying you've turned out to be a bad person, but your impressions could pose results you find less desirable.
If they were to flunk out of school, would you feel responsible? if yes, what would you do about it? he learned smoking pot was cool from you? you would now be a hipocrite if you asked him to consider stopping.
All i know is that I made my own choices and dealt with the ups and downs, i've learned to control my habit and respect it.
What if they are incapable of handleing those ups and downs? what if it leads to more complicated things like heroin coke etc. would you still think you lead them in the right direction and have been a successful role model?
Kyfe