I've Come To The Conclusion

[cosmic]

Karim.

I am not saying this is what is happening with you but just read my situation.....

It is very very hard for girls to make guy friends.

Im always paranoid that guys think i am "sending out the message" that i am interested in them....when in fact i am just being nice, friendly me.

I've had to tell a few people before that what they thought was something, wasn't, and it broke my heart. =(

But I DID NOT PLAY HEAD GAMES, and i did not lead them on, i didnt do anything differently with them than i would with any of my other friends. I would not do that to someone.

All I can say to EVERYONE is if you are truely interested in someone, say so from the outset, or test the waters, in a way that there is no doubt that you will get a yes or no answer. I've learned that this is the easiest way to do things now.

I don't want to get hurt...or blame someone for leading me on when really they weren't...so I find out right away if they are interested.....and if not....then I'll just be their friend. =)

It's far better to know, then to wonder or assume that someone likes you....

karim, you proally hate me now =(

 

[cosmic]

karim

i should say though...that from what you have said.....she did sound very enthusiastic about your friendship, and im sure if i was in the same situation i would have felt the same as you....

if she had a feeling that you felt the way you did, she should have said something like....geez im glad im single right now i dont have time for a boyfriend.....

but alas......she didnt =(

 

[Karim]

Cosmic, you are absolutely right. I'm not mad at you for stating the obvious.

The issue here is if I "want" what you said to be true.

I just find it a shame that nothing can come out of it all. I really like her (yes, I still like her).

Do you think I should keep a strong friendship? Cause it's awkward staying good friends after I tell her my feelings.

Thanks for your sympathy. I can work through it.

<---- At least Thursday at the Kool Haus helped me get my mind off it all.
Karim

 

[el presidente Highsteppa]

Originally posted by Karim
Do you think I should keep a strong friendship? Cause it's awkward staying good friends after I tell her my feelings.

Yes it is, but you can fumble your way through it much like I have many times. It's all dependant on open communication, honesty and making the effort. If you want to remain friends badly enough, you'll figure a way out on how to do it. But don't kill yourself, or emotionally hurt yourself in doing so.

<---- At least Thursday at the Kool Haus helped me get my mind off it all.
Karim

Wish I could have met ya. Would have loved to have talked.

From the Ministry of you did the right thing - got your mind off of things.

Prime Minister Highsteppa

 

[cosmic]

Originally posted by Karim
Cosmic, you are absolutely right. I'm not mad at you for stating the obvious.

The issue here is if I "want" what you said to be true.

I just find it a shame that nothing can come out of it all. I really like her (yes, I still like her).

Do you think I should keep a strong friendship? Cause it's awkward staying good friends after I tell her my feelings.

Thanks for your sympathy. I can work through it.

<---- At least Thursday at the Kool Haus helped me get my mind off it all.
Karim

I think if you can handle a friendship then by all means do it!

If you like her that much, I would think it better to have her in your life then not at all.....even if you have a struggle.....you just have to try to deal with your feelings....some people you just can't get over.... =(

 

[OTIS]

I say trust your companion..
but trust your insticnt more.

Everything can seem all fine & dandy but sometimes signs appear that tell you to keep your ear to the ground. Trust those.. they will give you an edge.

 

[Karim]

Well, I just had a nice conversation with her on MSN messenger. And we played a game of Yahoo pool.

I can see us staying really good friends.

James: I'll try to find a pic to post in the pic thread. You'll probably recognize me as one of the people up front, dancing till 6:30-7 at the Kool Haus. So you know who to look for at Delta Heavy

My buddy Jared (from the west coast) said he met ya at Howells last night. I was usually around him the entire night at Kool Haus.

Cosmic: You're advice was grand, thanks alot. You are absolutely right, a friendship is definately worth keeping.

Same to you James (the reason I call you James is I am too lazy to type El presi-what-cha-ma-call-it )

<---- Grateful
Karim

 

[~Ziggy~]

Originally posted by cosmic


some people you just can't get over.... =(

Cosmic your so rigth that some people you can't get over, specialy the ones that were so good to you and you did not treat them well and lost them

~Zig

 

[Bumbaclat]

Originally posted by ~Ziggy~


Cosmic your so rigth that some people you can't get over, specialy the ones that were so good to you and you did not treat them well and lost them

~Zig

ziggy, were you at the Tribe party at that frat house at the beginning of last summer?

Bumbaclat

 

[~Ziggy~]

Originally posted by Bumbaclat


ziggy, were you at the Tribe party at that frat house at the beginning of last summer?

Bumbaclat

i don't know, i can't remeber that far back, (IT"S THE ALCH.)

~zig

 

[Bumbaclat]

Do you look like this?

Bumbaclat

 

[~Ziggy~]

Originally posted by Bumbaclat
Do you look like this?

Bumbaclat

yes i wish, that if i was a gril

sorry but last time i checked i'm a guy

~zig

 

[cosmic]

Originally posted by ~Ziggy~


Cosmic your so rigth that some people you can't get over, specialy the ones that were so good to you and you did not treat them well and lost them

~Zig

yep....sometimes luv can suck....but its worth it

ps. ur silly

 

[cosmic]

Originally posted by Bumbaclat


ziggy, were you at the Tribe party at that frat house at the beginning of last summer?

Bumbaclat

i know dj cluster - ziggy was there.....but he is a guy too

 

[Bumbaclat]

oops - sorry!

Bumbaclat

 

[Guest]

Originally posted by Disco Stu
That girls suck!
Why must you play complicated mind games with us guys
It's very frustrating and confusing
Please for the love of god stop the mind games!

stu

try not to sweat it bro.
we all do it, to a point at least.

one day you'll meet someone who's perfect and then everything that's happened in the past won't matter anymore.

 

[noahmintz]

Rule #1 - _______ is your name. And breakin' mutha fuckas down is yo game.

Rule #2 - Before they come into yo house ... make sure they wipe their feet at the mutha fuckin door

Rule #3 - Keep slappin dick in the mouth of these bitches who don't know how to act right

stu

 

[noahmintz]

Re: Re: I've Come To The Conclusion

Originally posted by ~dazed~



try not to sweat it bro.
we all do it, to a point at least.

one day you'll meet someone who's perfect and then everything that's happened in the past won't matter anymore.

The scarey thing ... is I thought that already happened ... I guess I'm just cursed with shit luck with girls

stu

 

[el presidente Highsteppa]

Re: Re: I've Come To The Conclusion

Originally posted by ~dazed~



try not to sweat it bro.
we all do it, to a point at least.

one day you'll meet someone who's perfect and then everything that's happened in the past won't matter anymore.

Truer words cannot be said.

When you meet the right person, all the others will almost disappear from your mind.

But in the meantime, try and get them out of your head, so they won't be a source of aggravation in your life now.

From the Ministry of well said Evan

Prime Minister Highsteppa

 

[Karim]

Not only will your past be cleared of relationship faults, but love songs will start to make sense!

<--- Laaady in Reeddddddd, is dancing with me.......
Karim