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I've Come To The Conclusion

Discussion in 'TRIBE Main Forum' started by noahmintz, Mar 29, 2002.

  1. noahmintz

    noahmintz TRIBE Member

    That girls suck!
    Why must you play complicated mind games with us guys
    It's very frustrating and confusing
    Please for the love of god stop the mind games!

  2. StarvinMarvin

    StarvinMarvin TRIBE Member

    Someone needs to get laid:p

  3. Cheer Bear

    Cheer Bear TRIBE Member

    cause they're fun


    jus kiddin


  4. noahmintz

    noahmintz TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: I've Come To The Conclusion

    Are you talking to me?
    Cause I got laid last night my friend :cool: :D

  5. You're just hanging with the wrong ladies stu.

    Make it clear from the beginning that you have a low bullshit tollerance factor, and practice it.

    From the Ministry of guaranteed, if you practice it, you will be attracting the right kind of woman.

    Prime Minister Highsteppa
  6. StarvinMarvin

    StarvinMarvin TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: Re: I've Come To The Conclusion

    *golf clap*

  7. noahmintz

    noahmintz TRIBE Member

    Thanks :)
    And ... you told me about a movie coming out soon called Shaolin Soccer or something like that
    Do you know when it comes out?

  8. The title's been changed to Kung Fu Soccer and I believe it has a late April release date. it's being released by Alliance/Atlantis here and Miramax is responsible for the translation.

    I have it on DVD from a downtown store. Very funny and very cool. Some of the best CGI work I've seen in years too.

    From the Ministry of advice dispensed anytime :)

    Prime Minister Highsteppa <- 0 bullshit tolerance policy.
    Last edited: Mar 29, 2002
  9. smile

    smile TRIBE Member

    women are INSANE. yes, ALL of you.

    that is all.
  10. Trini

    Trini TRIBE Member

    not insane; goal alignment is the key.
  11. Balzz

    Balzz TRIBE Member

    Girls can't be trusted. They don't understand the double-standard.
  12. cosmic

    cosmic TRIBE Member

    Guys do it too!

    The fact is.....PEOPLE do it......some don''t ......but MOST do.....

    and it IS frustrating =(
  13. Stormshadow

    Stormshadow TRIBE Member

    I thought Miramax only did classy flicks, like The Crying Game or The Piano?
  14. choko

    choko TRIBE Member

    and resevoir dogs...
  15. Bumbaclat

    Bumbaclat TRIBE Member

    This is the first I've seen somebody hijack their very own thread.

  16. Miramax is responsible for dumping films such as From Dusk Til Dawn, Clerks, Pulp Fiction, Boys and Girls (that horrible flick w/ Freddie Prinze Jr., and the kid from American Pie) and plenty of other films, sometimes good sometimes dreck, on us. I believe Dimension films is a branch of them, specializing in horror and suspense films. They happen to have a very strong and solid business sense, as they were the ones to snap up Iron Monkey (through Quentin Tarantino's suggestion), Black Mask and plenty of other foreign films, through some of their other branches such as Artisan. They are generally viewed as independent cinema, but recieved a lot of criticism over being bought out by Disney back in 1995. And the criticism is fairly valid too: a fair number of edgier scripts have been rejected by Miramax after the buy out, that were originally green lighted before.

    And Bumbaclat, this isn't the first time someone hijacked their own thread. Gunark gets that honour back in december. :)

    From the Ministry of it is funny when it does happen though.

    Prime Minister Highsteppa
  17. H2Whoa

    H2Whoa TRIBE Member

    Jay & Silent Bob Strike Back?
  18. skyparty

    skyparty TRIBE Member

    see i tried that
    "im a straight up, no bullshit, no games kinda girl"
    and it doesn't work,

    you tell people straight up...
    and they still fuck you

    some people just dont get the meaning

    for fuck sakes, we can be mature and TALK about shit right?

    hell its taken my ex 4 months to talk to me.. to be honest with me

    and what does he do when we see each other?
    fucks off and hasnt talked to me a week,

    what the fuck ever.

    narissa :)
  19. noahmintz

    noahmintz TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: I've Come To The Conclusion

    Girls are the only ones who play the mean screwing you up head games!
    And seriously ... how are is it to understand vro's before ho's

  20. If you demand respect, you command respect. And you should never compromise about thing. Direct communication can be a good thing, so long as you don't leave yourself exposed. It sounds like a contradiction, but it's actually a tightrope balancing act that requires a lot of judgement. I have been blessed with having some very rewarding and loving relationships because I've taken a zero bullshit policy in my life, and at the same time, I've paid dearly for being so open, direct and honest. And there will be those pigfuckers that will use you to your own advantage, it's sad. But I take comfort that they will answer for thier shit soon enough, as they tend to leave behind a mess that will generally catch up with them, and they also don't think very far beyond tomorrow. I don't ever regret being open and direct, since it allows me to discern a lot quicker as to who is worth my time, and who isn't. You have to give a bit of trust, but they have to earn the rest.

    Keep at it Narissa. Given enough time, you will find the guy who will reciprocate the same kind of attitude that you give. :)

  21. cosmic

    cosmic TRIBE Member

    Re: Re: Re: I've Come To The Conclusion

    Still must disagree....I have first hand experience proving guys are guilty too....and it's very current first hand experience.

    =P So there!
  22. Additional thoughts:

    People who are lying to you, or playing head games often are afraid to be truely known. They are doing so, to prevent you from getting to know the real them. The reason why can be a number of reasons, but I generally come across that they often want to get what they want through their own selfish means and are often scared that someone might actually get to know what they are really like.

    Low self esteem? Maybe. They are worried that their lives are uninteresting to the point where they have to make up shit in order to seem interesting, but don't have the courage to be who they actually are. And after a while, the lies start piling up and they can't keep track of who they told what to, and slowly start painting themselves into a corner. Again, it will eventually catch up with them, as they will eventually have to prove themselves at one point or another. Nobody is that good a liar.

    Running from their past (ie. past people they have screwed over as well)? Possible. It's not surprising that people who have been fucking over others want to control the communication between their friends as to what is said, and so that conflicting stories do not arise. And if for example they do sincerely wish to start over and "turn over a new leaf", who do they have to say that can be a good character reference. I often talk to friends of anyone I get involved with to get an outsiders point of view and to get to know what they are like. You sometimes need an outsiders, less biases, less hormonally driven point of view in order to evaluate whether or not that person is worth your time. No friends often makes me nervous and therefore hesitant to be involved with someone else.

    From the Ministry of just going into depth. Debate and argue as you like. These are my conclusions alone, based solely on my own experiences.

    Prime Minister Highsteppa
  23. skyparty

    skyparty TRIBE Member

    isn't that the truth.

    i've kept on being me, often misunderstood, misinterpreted...

    and it seems to me, no matter how i am, how honest, how down to earth, how loving, how friendly, how open, how easy to talk to, how mature (in general), how fun and free etc etc etc

    i'm always left standing by myself.
    with the FEW people in my life that "get me"
    my mother, my select friends... and that's it.

    which i guess is just great, but there's always room to meet new people....

    maybe it's just that people don't take the time to fully understand me- and all that makes up me. as basic one said to me, about 2 1/2 years ago that i have never forgotten "think of the big picture" and i don't think many people do... people don't see the "big picture" of all that there is to being me.

    or all that there is to ANYONE
    people are so concerned about ME ME ME
    and fitting in, and social classes, and initial judgments etc... that they fail to take into account, there is a REAL heart inside those people... that you may overlook they're beautiful and amazing personality because of a simple few things you failed to set aside as "quirks" or something (i dont know?)

    i believe in second chances,
    i believe in people

    but the more i do... the more i realise that there are VERY FEW really REALLY good people out there- and it's so sad...

    what have we done to ourselves...?

    do we not take the time to admit people ARE people and they aren't perfect? that sometimes you click, sometimes you don't- that you may not be friend perse, but that doesn't mean you can't find a common ground and hold conversation? be able to be mature about shit? my list goes on...what happened to the respect, to the trust?

    i leearned this lesson of trust just recently.
    someone i trusted, someone i thought was a friend-- no matter how far away we were from each other and how often we *didn't* see each other-- just left me wondering WHAT? WHY? HOW? and i still question it... but what can i do? learn from my mistakes i guess?

    i guess i still believe there are generally good mature indivuduals out there- whom when things go off, for whatever reason- can still talk about it and decide to stick it out, or go their seperate ways. i don't like "FUCK IT" attitude that so many people put on their friendships. i do understand that after time and time of dissapointment it's time to get out the ol "fuck it" attitude... but cmon....

    where's the love?
    the understanding?
    the communication?
    the respect?
    the common courtesy?
    the list goes on...

    and this internet world of technology can help in some ways, and not in alot. i've found for myself-- lately anywayz-- it's been the deciding factor of my personality. when the truth is.... it takes more than a great person to see past what the internet says f for us and our hearts...

    we are who we are
    and we're all beautiful.

    in our own quirky little ways :D

    anyways i could go on and on about this people subject...
    i already have... i'm sure you don't want to hear my rants...

    i've found a few men that share this attitude

    one whom i haven't talked to lately, i wish i had...
    i love new friendships. it's always refreshing to meet great people who understand...

    and this ex of mine--
    he's just not mature enuf to deal with the feelings of his heart.

    i know him better than anyone, and he's only hurting himself.
    he decided it was better to me my friend, that not have me in life his at all (after 4 months of not speaking) yet-- we hang out, everything is cool, and he doesn't talk to me after... i'm sure i'll get the ol "i've been so busy" shit-- but the truth lies in his heart. its a simple as he cares too much to be my friend. the fact i know in my heart how he feels, that he's said "in so many words" how he does... but FEAR can be a great deciding factor in relationships. oh well. only time will tell...

    and in the meantime.
    i'm still waiting for someone really amazing to come into my life.
    and eventually that will happen.

    friends are fabulous.
    and so are you JAMES.

    thank you for your post.

    narissa :)
    Last edited: Mar 29, 2002
  24. skyparty

    skyparty TRIBE Member

    and i like your "conclusions, based solely on your experiences"

    the ME ME ME thing i mentioned.

    it's sick.

    narissa :)
  25. cosmic

    cosmic TRIBE Member

    i like this thread

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