Originally posted by The Watcher
Hahah, I know what you mean.
Time and time again I meet girls/women who seem to fit so nice with who I am, and we get along great, have everything in common, but she is already in a relationship.
All the good ones are taken, and I am not the type to try and brake things up or even suggest it. But that's ok.
I'm actually really comfortable being alone right now, but I just wonder all the time. I'm not looking, but I am keeping my mind open.
I find myself lusting for certain people here and there, but it's not necessarily a spiritual connection as it is a physical one... I know it is wrong, but I'm a guy, and I have urges you know.
I'd like to find my someone, and be with her, cause I have a lot of love to give, and I feel like it is wasted sometimes which is always a frustration.
I dont need the physical aspect as much as I need the emotional one most of the time. I love to love, I love to share, and I love to give, I just dont have anyone to do these things to.
But I guess I am on a journey to find myself, sometimes I think I totally understand everything about me, and I feel really happy about being me, but then there is that little part of me that is missing, and I'd like to find it. I think maybe it is my better half that is missing. But who knows, maybe I'm not done finding myself.
I just love to love,
Nick
Well said Nick, very well said.
I know exactly where you are coming from and what you are saying.
I have said it out loud many times as well that being alone isn't what bothers me, it's more of an opportunity cost thing. Time, (as I said it was scarce) feels like it is being wasted. I know what it is like to have a connection with someone. To wake up and look in someone's eyes and just be happy THEY are next to you. To have someone look back at you and feel safe with you, respect you, want you and love you just as much.
I know what it is like to know that you can offer the world to someone, you want to offer it, you can offer it, you know about all the adventures that you can have within it, but you have no one to offer it to or to share the experiences with. That is where the frustration lies and stems from. No one to share what this beautiful life can offer, because it is more fun when you have a 'partner in crime'.
Seems like we both have lots of love to give, hopefully we'll be able to give it to someone who is worthy of it soon.

Giving it to someone who isn't isn't worth either of our time.
I think you know yourself already, as I feel I know myself. Be happy, be proud, don't comprimise your integrity or what you want. You'll be happier in the end if you don't. Last thing you'd want is a relationship where you aren't completely exstatic, because it is easy to get comfortable and content, moreso as time goes on.
I don't know if you feel the same, but meaningless sex is just that. Meaningless. Once in a while, it's fun and cool, especially when there is an animal attraction/lust. But at the end of the day, the sex is a million times better when you actually don't feel like you want to say to that person 'get the fuck out of my bed/room/house'.
I'll revert to an earlier comment in saying maybe "I am just a suck at heart". My ex girlfriend used to tell me that all the time.
One love,
Thierry