haha... sorry to hear that, but at least you've come up with a foolproof method!?NemIsis said:I've learned my intuition really sucks..
So, I go by this:
1) If I think they are lying, they aren't
2) If I think they are telling the truth, I know they are lying MF's!!!...![]()
yeah that's what i mean... not sure if i want to be friends with this person if its true because it seems farily constant - my bs-o-meter is going off frequently but i don't see what the point would be... ?lucky1 said:if you can't trust your friends.. then who can you trust.
haha well that a fairly good selling point for me; win-win either wayThumpr said:always trust your intuition.
i tend to get my ass spanked if i don't.
yeah i think so too, but don't want to lose a friendship over a 'feeling'geminigirl said:Mine is pretty bang on.
artemis..trust you gut. I bet you it is right.
leverage? hmm. explain pls?~atp~ said:I have a hard time deciding whether my "intuition" is just a lack of identifying physical stimulus that I haven't actively paid attention to, yet my brain is nevertheless processing. I don't think I leverage my intuition very often.
atp.. It's the long weekend. Don't get all wordy on us.~atp~ said:I have a hard time deciding whether my "intuition" is just a lack of identifying physical stimulus that I haven't actively paid attention to, yet my brain is nevertheless processing. I don't think I leverage my intuition very often.
Sooo, I need to read this when I have more than 10 brain cells being active.~atp~ said:I have a hard time deciding whether my "intuition" is just a lack of identifying physical stimulus that I haven't actively paid attention to, yet my brain is nevertheless processing. I don't think I leverage my intuition very often.
Had this feeling for awhile.. Always knew the friend was lying and kept catching the person in the lie, but they would always manage to weasel out or come up with an 'explanation'... Go with your gut.artemis said:yeah i think so too, but don't want to lose a friendship over a 'feeling'
i'm just second-guessing myself... wish i had more solid facts
yeah, that's exactly what happens!NemIsis said:Had this feeling for awhile.. Always knew the friend was lying and kept catching the person in the lie, but they would always manage to weasel out or come up with an 'explanation'... Go with your gut.
artemis said:in this case, he is denying his interest in our gay neighbor, as well as having had 'experimental' relationships before, which he had already told me about previously
the thing that gets me is that he knows it would make no difference to me either way...? and i am incredinly good at keeping his secrets so...
also, this is not what would be the friendship breaker, what bothers me is that there are a whole bunch of little insignificant statements that have accumulated into one of those times where i no longer know what is truth or not with this person (?)
ten bucks says if i had the chance i could successfully diddle his biddle.artemis said:yeah! he is very masculine and intense...
By "leverage" I mean "act on". I'm just saying that when I feel "intuitive" about someone, I don't generally act on it directly...I'm almost always trying to reason my way through problems.artemis said:leverage? hmm. explain pls?