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PRIMAL

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I think it's the same with father's and daughters.

I also don't think it's changing any time soon.
 
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OhNo!

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Originally posted by Ivy Poison
they suck!

how is it so difficult for some mother's to let go of their sons?
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you'll act the same god damned way if you ever have a son,so chill out.
 
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jebac

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probably cause youre a money grubbing golddigger whore who wants to corrupt her little boy and kill her in her sleep

-jebac
 
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Ivy Poison

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Originally posted by PRIMAL
I think it's the same with father's and daughters.

I also don't think it's changing any time soon.
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:confused: so then since my pops doesn't care - he doesn't love me??
 
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littlenutty

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Originally posted by Ivy Poison
how is it so difficult for some mother's to let go of their sons?
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yep. and what makes it even harder is son's idealistic views of 'dear mother' ... geesh i don't have that problem, i'll be the first one show my list of issues, quirks and annoyances of my parents, i love them a lot but i can admit they aren't perfect. i think boys have tunnel vision when it comes to their moms.

i like my in-laws, slightly abrasive but good intentions none the less...
 
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Lysistrata

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My problem with my 'in-laws' is that they're 'normal parents'. Which means I can't smoke, swear, be bisexual or even talk about sex, be a pothead or even talk about drugs around them. I try to be understanding, most people's parents are like that so most people are adept at changing their behaviour, but mine fucking aren't so I'm fucking not.
 
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Ivy Poison

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i'm just pretty furious that she tries to control his life.

cause in the end she's attempting to control mine as well and that's entirely not acceptable!

let's not mention that his sister and his mom sit and converse about how much of a horrible person i am...


of course because i'm a gold-digging, non-cock sucking douchebag that is willing to let him move into MY house to get away from their psychoness!


you know, it's not liek we want to be together or anything :rolleyes:
 
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JAR

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Originally posted by Lysistrata
My problem with my 'in-laws' is that they're 'normal parents'. Which means I can't smoke, swear, be bisexual or even talk about sex, be a pothead or even talk about drugs around them. I try to be understanding, most people's parents are like that so most people are adept at changing their behaviour, but mine fucking aren't so I'm fucking not.
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fuck. that fucking sucks.
 
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OhNo!

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i like my in laws,they are nice people.sometimes they are crazy but so are most people.my parents are nice too,they love my wife but again they are crazy alot of the time.the fact of the matter is that it will only bother you if you let it.
 
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littlenutty

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Originally posted by Lysistrata
My problem with my 'in-laws' is that they're 'normal parents'. Which means I can't smoke, swear, be bisexual or even talk about sex, be a pothead or even talk about drugs around them. I try to be understanding, most people's parents are like that so most people are adept at changing their behaviour, but mine fucking aren't so I'm fucking not.
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that's funny because i'm at the opposite end. My parents are the 'normal' parents and his are more... ummm... 'free spirited' actually they are less like parents and more like his friends. But even though my parents are frumpy, corny and sheltered, they are always so loving, so generous and so kind to my boyfriend. I know it drives him crazy that they are so nerdy but they can't help it and it would break their hearts if we acted less then Brady bunch. But keep in mind from the other end getting used to non-conventional in-laws can be hard too. I'm not used to be being openly criticized, argued with or the butt of a family joke. I'm not used to a family that doesn't mind their Ps and Qs and i'm not used to the idea of 'my way or no way'. I love my in-laws but it's certainly a 180 from my family. I think that's what keeps things interesting.
 
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stir-fry

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How about your husband grows up and deals with it?
If she's manipulating both of your lives through him, maybe he needs to stop allowing her to do whatever it is she's doing.
 
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Ivy Poison

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Originally posted by stir-fry
How about your husband grows up and deals with it?
If she's manipulating both of your lives through him, maybe he needs to stop allowing her to do whatever it is she's doing.
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ah ok - first of all we're not married - but i like to call her the psycho mother-in-law...

and i this is where half of the frustration lies...

he has trouble telling her to fuck off because he lives there...

the trouble is that he wants out of there but his mom is trying to tell him 'he's not allowed' more or less...
 
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Ivy Poison

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honestly, i don't know...

they sat him down and said it'd be in his best interest to stay living with them, work for the summer with the goal of moving into my house on Labour day...

first of all, fuck them - what about OUR best interest?

i think he just doesn't want to disappoint his parents and has a hard time standing up to them...


so then i look like the bad guy because i don't agree with them...
 
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R4V4G3D_SKU11S

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Originally posted by Ivy Poison
they sat him down and said it'd be in his best interest to stay living with them, work for the summer with the goal of moving into my house on Labour day...
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Allright - why not just do this.

Make the parents happy, and eventually move in legitimately. They feel like they have control and he gets to move out. It's not like labour day is that far off.
 
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Ivy Poison

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Originally posted by janiecakes
If he's at least 16, he can leave.
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i know - so i don't know why things have to be so complicated...

or why they would even TRY to tell him what to do!


i mean, i was really upset when he told me that all of our plans for April were post-poned till September because 'his parents thought it would be best' obviously we got into an argument and were fighting for a day or two...

so his dumb sister decides to have a conversation with him on msn yesterday in regards to how terrible i am and ya dee ya...
well he was at my house and i read it all...

so now he's in a really bad position because i WILL NEVER go there for dinner again!

they're pushing him away...how can they be so stunned?
 
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