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i dont think im good enough for this dood :(

Discussion in 'TRIBE Main Forum' started by under18, Dec 9, 2001.

  1. under18

    under18 TRIBE Member

    Hey .... this is so stupid but its really bugging me ...

    recently i've been talking with this new guy that I always kindof had a crush on and now he says that he likes me alot too - and basically he's got me doing all kinds of crazy things - like calling just to say hey and see how his day was, writing notes to him when im bored in class (im really a model student, i swear...),forgetting about me long-lived love with my 'boo', and thinking about "us" .... I NEVER DO THOSE THINGS ! IM SUPPOSED TO BE A PIMP, DAMNIT!! I don't even think about other guys anymore and how fine they are..

    but the thing is i can't help feeling like he is way too good for me - not only is he mad fine, but he is also funny, smart, sweet, talks to me about my stupid problems that aren't even close to the problems of many people in this world, and so caring and kind ... u get me?

    i find myself thinking *what the hell does he want from me?* .. cause i cant see it..

    this is a stupid thing to post on the tribe board but i need some advice on what i should do and maybe some words of wisdom ..

    whats with me getting all insecure? thats so not me !

    someone diagnose me!!!!

  2. Eclectic

    Eclectic TRIBE Member

    You like him?

    Him like you?

    What's the problem?

    I don't know you, but my opinion is go for it and have some fun!
  3. labRat

    labRat TRIBE Member

  4. bucky

    bucky TRIBE Member

    "you're too good for me." blah!! that's the worst to hear from someone..
  5. MalGlo

    MalGlo TRIBE Member

    is he from tribe?? OOOoooOo fresh drama!! [​IMG]
  6. beaker

    beaker TRIBE Member

    have you even approached him about it?

    aggressive girls are hot. they save us guys all the work.
  7. tobywan

    tobywan TRIBE Member

    Why would he be "too good" for you? Just because he's all those traits you listed, doesn't mean that you don't "deserve" him...you should be happy, and fortunate, to have found someone that carries those many traits, 'cause god knows there's not too many people like that out there...

  8. Booty Bits

    Booty Bits TRIBE Member

    i think that you probably feel like hes too good for you simply because hes all the things you want in a guy.

    sometimes its easy to get confused between feeling fulfilled and feeling spoiled. i.e. the difference between feeling like you are having all your need fulfilled by someone, and feeling like you don't deserve so much from anyone.
    does that make any sense?
  9. Temper Tantrum

    Temper Tantrum TRIBE Member

    That's bullshit.

    Everyone deserves to be happy. You deserve the best C, there's no way that there is anyone 'too good' for you.

    Go for it.

    he's a lucky guy in my opinion

    t. tAnTrUm
  10. Moez

    Moez TRIBE Member

    that totally makes sense and sounds very right.

    Caroline just trust your feelings and don't think so negatively. If he has expressed interest as well then there must be a connection between the two of you.

    go for it.

    it all sounds really sweet !!! [​IMG]
  11. mingster

    mingster TRIBE Member

    I have seen lots of girls go out with the biggest twits... reason why? They don't think they can get better. I've seen lots of girls "settle" for guys, and it usually turns out to be a mistake.

    You deserve only the very best. I don't know if something is making you feel as though you don't, or that you're not good enough. But you own yourself nothing short or aiming for the best guy out there.

    Be careful not to put im on a pedestal, he's just a human being (I'm sure), he's also just a person. [​IMG]

  12. pr0nstar

    pr0nstar TRIBE Member

    go for it Caroline... simple as that.

    If you like him and he likes you.. I don't know what the problem is here.

    You only live once, take some initiative and hook it up.

    pr0nstar [​IMG]
  13. skyparty

    skyparty TRIBE Member

    it made perfect sense to me Booty Bits.

    caroline... for REAL girl- i know it's hard to accept that there is a guy out there that can make you feel like this but just go with it! you deserve the best!

    and if he isn't the best...
    then you're too good for him anyway!

    narissa [​IMG]
  14. roo

    roo TRIBE Member

    Sure you are, C. [​IMG]
  15. The question isn't whether is he good enough for you (everyone deserves the best in life), I see it as being are you too compatitable? If you're feeling insecure, it might help if you don't think of it of "do I measure up?" as much as thinking "what can we do for each other?"

    From the Ministry of go get him tiger. You deserve the best in life, and don't settle.

    Prime Minister Highsteppa
  16. air-bag

    air-bag TRIBE Member

    ^^ presidential wisdom

    Although "what can I do for him?" might fit more here..
  17. under18

    under18 TRIBE Member

    ^^^^ yea, and my foot would fit really nicely up your ass in this situation, too!!

    thank u everyone
    i'm feeling alot better now after i talked to him and he said some SWEET shit that re-assured me that we are A-OK and great for eachother [​IMG]

    i feel alot better right now, although there is always a lil something in the back of my head u know?

    but im'a handle my B.I., as they say!!!

    thanks everybody

    ps. roo i like u alot [​IMG] always have!
  18. under18

    under18 TRIBE Member

    ps. malglo -> HELL NO he aint from the tribe board!!!!!! u KNOW not to be asking me that shit!!!!!!!

    you're in big trouble, mister!
  19. air-bag

    air-bag TRIBE Member

    xcuse me?
  20. twist

    twist TRIBE Member

    aduh. Hello? Mcfly? what does he want from you? You. Hook it up.
  21. R4V4G3D_SKU11S

    R4V4G3D_SKU11S TRIBE Member

    I remember in the summer when you came to my work - when you left every single guy at work was drooling and asking who you were.

    You don't need to worry 'bout it baby phat.
  22. Bumbaclat

    Bumbaclat TRIBE Member

    someone needs to tell under18 about the birds and the bees.

  23. OTIS

    OTIS TRIBE Member

    what's with the attitude,

    airbag was presenting advice and you insulted him..

    girls with attitudes are ugly.

    wait, hold on,

    *translation of whack-ass english*

    what'swiff da attitude,

    airbag wuz presenting advice an' ya insulted him..

    ho's wiff attitudes iz ugly. peep this shit

    bling bling.

  24. Temper Tantrum

    Temper Tantrum TRIBE Member


    Dood, I must say that is funny shit [​IMG]

    But I think C is a kick ass girl regardless.

    t. tAnTrUm
  25. roo

    roo TRIBE Member

    ^^^ I agree with TT. And thanks! [​IMG]

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