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i dont think im good enough for this dood :(

under18

TRIBE Member
Hey .... this is so stupid but its really bugging me ...

recently i've been talking with this new guy that I always kindof had a crush on and now he says that he likes me alot too - and basically he's got me doing all kinds of crazy things - like calling just to say hey and see how his day was, writing notes to him when im bored in class (im really a model student, i swear...),forgetting about me long-lived love with my 'boo', and thinking about "us" .... I NEVER DO THOSE THINGS ! IM SUPPOSED TO BE A PIMP, DAMNIT!! I don't even think about other guys anymore and how fine they are..

but the thing is i can't help feeling like he is way too good for me - not only is he mad fine, but he is also funny, smart, sweet, talks to me about my stupid problems that aren't even close to the problems of many people in this world, and so caring and kind ... u get me?

i find myself thinking *what the hell does he want from me?* .. cause i cant see it..

this is a stupid thing to post on the tribe board but i need some advice on what i should do and maybe some words of wisdom ..


whats with me getting all insecure? thats so not me !

someone diagnose me!!!!

Cee
(barely18)
 

Eclectic

TRIBE Member
You like him?

Him like you?


What's the problem?

I don't know you, but my opinion is go for it and have some fun!
 
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beaker

TRIBE Member
have you even approached him about it?

aggressive girls are hot. they save us guys all the work.
 

tobywan

TRIBE Member
Why would he be "too good" for you? Just because he's all those traits you listed, doesn't mean that you don't "deserve" him...you should be happy, and fortunate, to have found someone that carries those many traits, 'cause god knows there's not too many people like that out there...

Bias
 

Booty Bits

TRIBE Member
i think that you probably feel like hes too good for you simply because hes all the things you want in a guy.

sometimes its easy to get confused between feeling fulfilled and feeling spoiled. i.e. the difference between feeling like you are having all your need fulfilled by someone, and feeling like you don't deserve so much from anyone.
does that make any sense?
 

Temper Tantrum

TRIBE Member
That's bullshit.

Everyone deserves to be happy. You deserve the best C, there's no way that there is anyone 'too good' for you.

Go for it.

he's a lucky guy in my opinion

t. tAnTrUm
 

Moez

TRIBE Member
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Booty Bits:
i think that you probably feel like hes too good for you simply because hes all the things you want in a guy.

sometimes its easy to get confused between feeling fulfilled and feeling spoiled. i.e. the difference between feeling like you are having all your need fulfilled by someone, and feeling like you don't deserve so much from anyone.
does that make any sense?

</font>

that totally makes sense and sounds very right.

Caroline just trust your feelings and don't think so negatively. If he has expressed interest as well then there must be a connection between the two of you.

go for it.

it all sounds really sweet !!!
 
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mingster

TRIBE Member
I have seen lots of girls go out with the biggest twits... reason why? They don't think they can get better. I've seen lots of girls "settle" for guys, and it usually turns out to be a mistake.

You deserve only the very best. I don't know if something is making you feel as though you don't, or that you're not good enough. But you own yourself nothing short or aiming for the best guy out there.

Be careful not to put im on a pedestal, he's just a human being (I'm sure), he's also just a person.


Ming.
 

pr0nstar

TRIBE Member
go for it Caroline... simple as that.

If you like him and he likes you.. I don't know what the problem is here.

You only live once, take some initiative and hook it up.

pr0nstar
 

skyparty

TRIBE Member
it made perfect sense to me Booty Bits.

caroline... for REAL girl- i know it's hard to accept that there is a guy out there that can make you feel like this but just go with it! you deserve the best!

and if he isn't the best...
then you're too good for him anyway!

narissa
 
The question isn't whether is he good enough for you (everyone deserves the best in life), I see it as being are you too compatitable? If you're feeling insecure, it might help if you don't think of it of "do I measure up?" as much as thinking "what can we do for each other?"

From the Ministry of go get him tiger. You deserve the best in life, and don't settle.

Prime Minister Highsteppa
 
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air-bag

TRIBE Member
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by el presidente Highsteppa:
it might help if you don't think of it of "do I measure up?" as much as thinking "what can we do for each other?"
</font>
^^ presidential wisdom

Although "what can I do for him?" might fit more here..
 

under18

TRIBE Member
^^^^ yea, and my foot would fit really nicely up your ass in this situation, too!!


thank u everyone
i'm feeling alot better now after i talked to him and he said some SWEET shit that re-assured me that we are A-OK and great for eachother


i feel alot better right now, although there is always a lil something in the back of my head u know?

but im'a handle my B.I., as they say!!!

thanks everybody
luv
Cee

ps. roo i like u alot
always have!
 

under18

TRIBE Member
ps. malglo -&gt; HELL NO he aint from the tribe board!!!!!! u KNOW not to be asking me that shit!!!!!!!

-c-
you're in big trouble, mister!
 
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R4V4G3D_SKU11S

TRIBE Member
I remember in the summer when you came to my work - when you left every single guy at work was drooling and asking who you were.

You don't need to worry 'bout it baby phat.
 

Bumbaclat

TRIBE Member
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by under18:
i find myself thinking *what the hell does he want from me?* </font>
someone needs to tell under18 about the birds and the bees.


Bumbaclat
 

OTIS

TRIBE Member
under18
what's with the attitude,

airbag was presenting advice and you insulted him..

girls with attitudes are ugly.


wait, hold on,

*translation of whack-ass english*

under18,
what'swiff da attitude,

airbag wuz presenting advice an' ya insulted him..

ho's wiff attitudes iz ugly. peep this shit

bling bling.

-OTIS
 
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