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assassaint
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ahhahahaChrisD said:
LOL
shit, im gonna subscribe to this thread, i may learn something. i wish i could contribute but i suck something fierce when it comes to woman.
i've been called emotional cripple, stalker, douche (when i didnt call her back in 2 days lol), fuckface and my favourite "hey you, in the bushes".
so yeah... i think all y'all are better off without any help from yours truly.
edit - whoever said something about the notebook, go fuck yourself. tried it once, backfired badly, got called "soulles bastard".
also, if you wanna see artsy european flick with a girl that you really like DO NOT rent baise moi
unique2100
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Not all women are jealous irrational psycho beasts. 95% are, so what you gotta do is not deal with those 95% in the way which they want. What way is that you ask? Caring! They want you to care so you can be involved in their bullshit. Never care. Caring is what gets you into trouble. Just keep your eyes on the prize and you'll be fine.
assassaint
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i agree but how the fuck do you know that shes one of them 5%??
because, at the beginning they all look pretty normal to me. and then after 2 weeks it starts....
because, at the beginning they all look pretty normal to me. and then after 2 weeks it starts....
This thread is a hilarious illustration of the problem implied in the title... aaaanyway.Toonces said:
Typically (if my failed attempts to 'deal with women' are any indication), I haven't been able to read the whole thread-- though I tried, really I did-- before giving in to my urge to pipe up.
The topic is ripe for generalization, but I do think there is a gender difference in this need to vent. Though sometimes I may just spout off about a problem and feel better about having said something to somebody, usually by the time I talk about it-- especially to a girlfriend or whatever, if they aren't directly involved in the issue-- it means I have thought about it a fair bit and want somebody else's input. As much as I have heard all the things expressed herein before, I can't seem to wrap my head around the idea of wanting to talk about something without... having a conversation about it.
NemIsis
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Ok, just got the down-low from one of my buddies today.unique2100 said:
There are some psychos out there. He broke up with his girlfriend 7 months ago and has been doing the dating trail. But for some reason, after a couple of dates they'd lose interest? He was confused as all seemed to be going well. He's a very cute and sweet guy.
Fast forward to now. Went on a week's vacation to the Dominican with his current gf. She arrives to pick him up and shows him a printed off fb message she received from some random person. It's a copy and paste of a somewhat sexual conversation he had with another girl before he even met her. He explained it was a while back. They had a great time. Psychobitch did not interfere with their plans.
Checked with the other girls who are still fb friends, and yeah... they recieved much the same thing which is why they cut him off.
Turns out his ex (PB) hacked into his account and has been sending these things since Oct.
Should I even bother to tell you about the fb message she sent to EVERYONE after they broke up about how he abuses her (but she doesn't understand why he wants to break up with her as she loves him so much and JUST wants to be with him?), or that she called his MOTHER? Yep, to tell her what bad things he was up to. His mother called him in tears thinking he was a drug addict. He likes his j. To hear his mom crying on the phone?? Man.
He has deleted all of the people that are her friends. Lesson to all. Cut ties to psychos.
^ i seen similar stories but with the gender roles reversed...guy stalking the ex, calling to rat her out to her mother, reporting her every move to the over-protective parents
sometimes it ain't the chick that's crazy and sometimes it ain't the guy that's stupid
frankly, i'd rather deal w/ stupid...way more predictable. i don't envy you guys having to manage some of us nutbars raging on hormones. Girls, we really need to start calling each other out on being psychobitches more often. Guys...well shit..more DHA and ginko?
sometimes it ain't the chick that's crazy and sometimes it ain't the guy that's stupid
frankly, i'd rather deal w/ stupid...way more predictable. i don't envy you guys having to manage some of us nutbars raging on hormones. Girls, we really need to start calling each other out on being psychobitches more often. Guys...well shit..more DHA and ginko?
assassaint
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get with the program man. that DUDE is PREGNANT.nonlocal said:
what the fuck is gender?
RobotHouse
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This can be extremely difficult and frustrating. Especially if they are determined to get the revenge they seek.NemIsis said:
a guy i know is getting abused by his girlfriend.
she is controlling. manipulative, and emotionally/verbally abusive.
it's so pathetic. LEAVE THE WOMAN.
"but i love her, and i just want her to love me.
i want her to love me the way a nice girlfriend should.
when things are good, they are so good."
keep in mind she put him in jail for a few days, FOR NOTHING.
crazy bitches!
then last night i heard a fight from a new couple in my apartment.
"i know you've never been in a serious relationship before...
but you're here. this is it. you're in one! we live together!
so what's important to you... is important to me...
..
.
FUCK!!!!!!!!! didn't yo hear a word i said?
WHAT'S IMPORTANT TO YOU, IS IMPORTANT TO ME!"
she was crying, he was barely saying a word, and it drove her more crazy.
i'm a crier myself. dear lord haha suckers....
she is controlling. manipulative, and emotionally/verbally abusive.
it's so pathetic. LEAVE THE WOMAN.
"but i love her, and i just want her to love me.
i want her to love me the way a nice girlfriend should.
when things are good, they are so good."
keep in mind she put him in jail for a few days, FOR NOTHING.
crazy bitches!
then last night i heard a fight from a new couple in my apartment.
"i know you've never been in a serious relationship before...
but you're here. this is it. you're in one! we live together!
so what's important to you... is important to me...
..
.
FUCK!!!!!!!!! didn't yo hear a word i said?
WHAT'S IMPORTANT TO YOU, IS IMPORTANT TO ME!"
she was crying, he was barely saying a word, and it drove her more crazy.
i'm a crier myself. dear lord haha suckers....
Boss Hog
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When guys are in abusive relationships it can take some time for the guy to realize it not only because it works against the stereotype but because no guy is going to admit (or at least believe) that he's receiving abuse from a woman.
It's a shitty situation to be in because you will always make excuses or justify it in a hundred ways to yourself while it just goes on and on and on. And when you break free from it, feel the weight off your shoulders and look at it in hindsight only then do you finally realize just how ugly and abusive it was. Well that works for either men or women, but I think men have to come around to realizing that abuse is often a two-way street.
It's a shitty situation to be in because you will always make excuses or justify it in a hundred ways to yourself while it just goes on and on and on. And when you break free from it, feel the weight off your shoulders and look at it in hindsight only then do you finally realize just how ugly and abusive it was. Well that works for either men or women, but I think men have to come around to realizing that abuse is often a two-way street.
The Watcher
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Here's how to deal with women
Woman randomly acting out
http://www.break.com/index/cute-girlfriend-gives-good-headache.html
Woman getting her just deserts.
Woman randomly acting out
http://www.break.com/index/cute-girlfriend-gives-good-headache.html
Woman getting her just deserts.
A fine question, and precisely what I was trying to dance around by giving the caveat of generalization before my comments...assassaint said:
I can't answer, of course, but I do find it interesting that trannies and extreme cases like your friend the PREGNANT DUDE are held up as examples of a post-gender society, when really they are examples of the hold gender roles still have over us. If gender wasn't so important, and defining of "who you are," than he(she?) wouldn't have had to take all those hormones to change his(her?) body to match the person he felt he 'really was' or whatever. Even if you're a boy, busting out the lipstick and pumps for a friday night is re-enforcing traditional gender roles, not breaking them down...
Not that there's anything wrong with that.