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how do you know if you're a good lay?

Michlerish

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Originally posted by lucky1
you know someone will be a good lay if they are a good dancer.. tried and true.....


and well don't want to brag but i'm a good dancer ;)
I know someone who's a great dancer... and he's sexy too. Mmmmm
 

Michlerish

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Originally posted by basketballjones
anyone else kind of meh on head...ive had great head, but i would much rather be going downtown than just sitting back and getting her to go downtown....69's r good...but at some point the woman always just cant keep up....i would have to say i love eating box...
when giving bj's, the girl should switch it up. Giving head for more than 10 or 15 minutes gets really boring for both people (and tiring for the girl). Give head, kiss a bit, kiss other parts, give head again, kiss again, then go in for the kill... etc.

Guys are the ones who don't understand this the most.
 

why not

TRIBE Member
Re: Re: Re: how do you know if you're a good lay?

Originally posted by docta seuss
totally, but not really all that sneaky..
:D
you should have seen my first draft at this thread.
glad i didn't hit submit.

another thought:
your partner's perspective on your prowess is totally affected by their past. if they've only had bad sex, and you're decent, you're going to seem like a god.
if they've had a lot of good sex, it's going to take a bit more to impress them.
 

kmac

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It's all relative, I think. All I know is that some of the more memorable ones for me have had no qualms or hang ups.
 

basketballjones

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i would just rather be the giver of said head......im nutty like that.....with my ex...i would do it at any time anyplace....cant get enough....cept when she was driving,...never figured that one out,...LOL
 
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Michlerish

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Originally posted by basketballjones
i would just rather be the giver of said head......im nutty like that.....with my ex...i would do it at any time anyplace....cant get enough....cept when she was driving,...never figured that one out,...LOL
do you need a diagram?
 

circle

TRIBE Member
Originally posted by lucky1
you know someone will be a good lay if they are a good dancer.. tried and true.....


and well don't want to brag but i'm a good dancer ;)
THAT explains why i'm a such a good dancer.
 

why not

TRIBE Member
Originally posted by basketballjones
anyone else kind of meh on head...ive had great head, but i would much rather be going downtown than just sitting back and getting her to go downtown....69's r good...but at some point the woman always just cant keep up....i would have to say i love eating box...
count me in - a good blowjob is nice, but hard to come by. blowjobs from other guys are generally more consistently good (for obvious reasons), but some guys don't really know what they're doing either. i'd usually rather be the one giving the head, turns me on more.
69 is good, but doesn't work with all couples (sometimes both partners prefer to be on the top or bottom, in which case it'll always be ackward for one of them).
 

Muad'ib

Well-Known TRIBEr
Originally posted by Michlerish
Guys: what makes girls a good lay? Like, what sticks out in your mind from past experiences?
girls that will take control and tell you what they want and how they want it without being bossy about it.








although i quite enjoy being bossed around too.
;)
 
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outofcontrol

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Originally posted by Michlerish
when giving bj's, the girl should switch it up. Giving head for more than 10 or 15 minutes gets really boring for both people (and tiring for the girl). Give head, kiss a bit, kiss other parts, give head again, kiss again, then go in for the kill... etc.

Guys are the ones who don't understand this the most.

There are VERY few women that do that.
I WISH more did.

I understand this completely.
 

basketballjones

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adventurousness...and not having mad hang ups....if they dont masturbate that is usually a bad sign they are not comfortable with their own body so dont be bringing out the blindfolds and such...LOL
 

outofcontrol

TRIBE Member
Originally posted by Michlerish
Guys: what makes girls a good lay? Like, what sticks out in your mind from past experiences?

An obvious desire to please and be pleased.
All the good ones start with this.
 
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why not

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Originally posted by Michlerish
Guys: what makes girls a good lay? Like, what sticks out in your mind from past experiences?
truthfully, i find it hard to rate people like that.

i guess it's about being open minded, adventurous, and aware of their own body and desires.
a lot of it is just chemistry, which is why the people who were good to me might not be to other people.
 

why not

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Originally posted by Michlerish
why not, is okay if we kinda sorta hijack your thread into a sex-related theme? Cause I have another question...
go right ahead - i already hijacked it with my questions about sensitive pussies.
 

Michlerish

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Originally posted by why not
truthfully, i find it hard to rate people like that.

i guess it's about being open minded, adventurous, and aware of their own body and desires.
a lot of it is just chemistry, which is why the people who were good to me might not be to other people.
Okay... so it's pretty similar for guys and girls then.

IMO, a bad lay = someone who seems selfish or trying to act out a porn
 

Michlerish

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Originally posted by why not
go right ahead - i already hijacked it with my questions about sensitive pussies.
:)


So I'm wondering who has tried a DP in real life?

(I guess it might only apply to the straight people... but maybe not)
 

Michlerish

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Originally posted by outofcontrol
An obvious desire to please and be pleased.
All the good ones start with this.
but... if you didn't have this, you wouldn't be having sex in the first place ;)
 
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why not

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Originally posted by Michlerish
or trying to act out a porn
the only people i've slept with who boasted about themselves before the fact were like this. not much fun in real life.

*most* porn sex is for the camera, not for the pleasure.
 

litespeed

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Originally posted by Michlerish
Guys: what makes girls a good lay? Like, what sticks out in your mind from past experiences?

rhythm.. i like when a woman can get in sync with me and what I'm doing... and isn't just flailing around like a freak.
 
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