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Have you ever dated someone....

...who by all accounts is "the package deal" except for one flaw that you just can't get past?

I dated a guy who was attractive, super smart, great sense of humour, such a "good guy", awesome career, great mindset, personality etc. We really clicked.

But, he had this one physical flaw that I just couldn't get past.

Fuck. It's just too bad. And so fucking irritating. :mad:

It seems that some flaws I can get past, some I can't. Within reason of course.
 

Libradragon

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Originally posted by daddyiwantchocolate
...who by all accounts is "the package deal" except for one flaw that you just can't get past?
story of my life.

the *flaws* weren't physical though.
 
Originally posted by Subsonic Chronic
well.....?
Well nothing.

Just thought it might provoke some interesting convo.

For example, I have a friend who regularly get's "the gross outs" after dating guys for x period of time. She inevitabely will find something wrong with them that she just can't get over.

A couple weeks into the relationship, she noticed that one guy she was dating had odd toes (*as far as I recall). She got "the gross outs" and ended it.
 
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Mr_Furious

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Originally posted by daddyiwantchocolate


Well nothing.

Just thought it might provoke some interesting convo.

For example, I have a friend who regularly get's "the gross outs" after dating guys for x period of time. She inevitabely will find something wrong with them that she just can't get over.

A couple weeks into the relationship, she noticed that one guy she was dating had odd toes (*as far as I recall). She got "the gross outs" and ended it.
sounds like the movie Shallow Hal....

does this guy have cankles?
 

Mr_Furious

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Originally posted by Cheeka
haha Will its DIWC - what do you think it is :p
must be the cankles....

just remember, its not the size of the boat, its the motion in the ocean.....

its not the size of the hammer, its how you hit the nail....
 
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Evil Dynovac

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Too much Seinfeild.

"He was a close talker."
"She was a high talker."
"He's a re-gifter."
"She's a re-wearer."
"He's a key-scratcher."
"He's a knuckle cracker."

and best of all...

"She has man hands."
 

poker face

TRIBE Member
The Dating Scene sucks!

I also can be so picky that one thing is wrong I am gone, and then if there is something I like they are gone.

lee <-- going to be single for the rest of his life!

P.S. Please tell me what the flaw is!
 
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Well, in this one particular case, it was a physical thing for me, but there have been plenty other relationships that have been perfect, save for one "flaw", as libra suggested, often NOT physical. "He's an awesome guy, but he doesn't [in whiny girl voice] communicate with me".
 
Originally posted by poker face

P.S. Please tell me what the flaw is!
His penis was approximately 3* inches long. Which was suprising, as he was a generally "big guy" overall. As well (as a result?) he had no sex drive.

*just sent my assistant to find a ruler, so I will confirm that approximation and get back to you.
 

dimpy

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sometimes if it's not a love match before i even realize it i will find everything that a guy says/does/looks like a way to potentially drive me crazy.

eg. the way he opens ketchup
-the way he says my name
-a particular outfit he has and wears often
-the way he smells
-his dwelling place

i know it sounds superficial but it happens. the worst is when someone seems to have no immediately apparent flaws and it makes perfect SENSE for you to be happy with them, but you just don't want any part of them...
 

Mr_Furious

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Originally posted by poker face
The Dating Scene sucks!

I also can be so picky that one thing is wrong I am gone, and then if there is something I like they are gone.

lee <-- going to be single for the rest of his life!

P.S. Please tell me what the flaw is!
Lee....if you haven't figured it out already.....I already know your vital flaw :p
 
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Dimpy, you just reminded me of another one (different guy).

This guy was perfect except for the fact that he ate like an animal (think fork held like shovel), and he had really bad posture (would always slump at dinner).

Shit like that annoys me. Table manners are up there with "can walk upright" for me.
 

Lit'l Jalapeno

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I can totally understand getting the gross outs. Not that I particularly thought the guy was a full package, although he gave wicked after-party massages and pre-, post- and all-around fabulous head but ... one day I woke up in his bed and noticed his pillow was covered with his dandruff. I was outta that relationship within the week. Ewwwww.
 

poker face

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Originally posted by daddyiwantchocolate


His penis was approximately 3* inches long. Which was suprising, as he was a generally "big guy" overall. As well (as a result?) he had no sex drive.

*just sent my assistant to find a ruler, so I will confirm that approximation and get back to you.
Damn I feel sorry for him!

Actually no I feel sorry for you!
 

Cheeka

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hahaha Val - if he saw this imagine how crushed he would be.
poor guy

it is really is too bad - he's a doctor, nice guy, intelligent, cute enough.

damn :(
 
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