Long-term meaning over a year. How much do you fight with your significant other? What is a normal amount of fighting in a relationship? I hate fighting and that all we seem to do lately. She tells me it's normal for couples to fight, and I agree with that, but I always seem to do something wrong. Am I just another cluless asshole? When we fight, it starts from little things and then everthing takes on epic proportions, and we fight until we're exhausted with frustration. Some words of encouragement would be nice and advice on how to settle our differences.