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Cyber Cheating

Beats-Mistress

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I would say this means that a person m/f has a mate/spouse or intimate friend and decides to carry on a cyber relation with someone else in secret.

Guys...do u not think this is cheating? Ditto for the girls?

How do you feel about this cyber problems that is breaking up relationships lately?
 
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Bass-Invader

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synchronizator said:
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cyber sex....
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jebac

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if my chick was cybering with some guy she met over the net and had his picture and shit or was looking at his cock over webcam id be pissed as shit

-jebac
 

that 420 guy

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taken from this thread...

cheating is sharing any intimate act with another person that you WOULD NOT do if your significant other was in the room.

given that definition, then cyber sex could be considered cheating if you wouldn't do it with your partner in the room.

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personally, i'm a sharing type of guy, so if my partner was having hot cybersex with someone else i'd like to be involved. i would not be pissed if my partner shared intimacy with someone else online, i'd be pissed if my partner didn't share intimacy with me.

~*...normaste...*~
 
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Beats-Mistress

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^^^LOL OK

I think cyber cheating means you are emotionally cheating on your partner. What does that say about the cheater? To me it says that they have little respect for their relationship and for their partner.

I don't feel comfortable seeing others do this or a friend going through this. I think if I cared about a friend...I would have to step up and say something bc I think it's wrong. Wouldn't you?
 

Beats-Mistress

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Now here's something to think about...

which is worse...to be cheated on...or to know that your partner is having an intimate cyber relationship with someone other than yourself?
 

nusty

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Beats-Mistress said:
Now here's something to think about...

which is worse...to be cheated on...or to know that your partner is having an intimate cyber relationship with someone other than yourself?

no I will not have sex with you.
 

NemIsis

TRIBE Member
I think if you are sharing 'emotionally or sexually' with another, whether it be virtual or real, and you know it would upset your partner then it is cheating...

The key here is, "If you know it would upset your partner" . I think it's more about the 'lie' than anything else.. IMO
 
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Ditto Much

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Alright if its cheating than isn't all online porn cheating, for that matter isn't watching porn and wacking off cheating.

On my scale of 1 to 10, 1 being flirting with the girl at the coffee shop 10 being weekend of sex on a secluded island cyber sex is maybe a 3, its not even up there with a lap dance at a stag party.
 

squirrely

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Ditto Much said:
Alright if its cheating than isn't all online porn cheating, for that matter isn't watching porn and wacking off cheating.

i'd say no, because it's not reciprocal. there's no sharing involved whatsoever.

Ditto Much said:
On my scale of 1 to 10, 1 being flirting with the girl at the coffee shop 10 being weekend of sex on a secluded island cyber sex is maybe a 3, its not even up there with a lap dance at a stag party.

what if the cyber sex is with someone you know in person? does that change the ranking?

i personally think we are sooooo beyond the idea that the internet isn't "real" that fucking someone via webcam & keyboard is most definitely a betrayal of a committed relationship. i can't imagine an argument that would make me think otherwise.
 

NemIsis

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Ditto Much said:
Alright if its cheating than isn't all online porn cheating, for that matter isn't watching porn and wacking off cheating.

On my scale of 1 to 10, 1 being flirting with the girl at the coffee shop 10 being weekend of sex on a secluded island cyber sex is maybe a 3, its not even up there with a lap dance at a stag party.

Porn is different. You're not 'sharing' intimacy. If you need to talk (or share a sexual moment), talk (share it with) your s/o... if you can't, then there is no relationship. Masturbation to porn is different..

Most s/o would not be hurt by porn, but they may be hurt by cybersex with a real person.. If you know it would hurt them..Why?..Then it is cheating...imho
 

littlenutty

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squirrely said:
i'd say no, because it's not reciprocal. there's no sharing involved whatsoever.



what if the cyber sex is with someone you know in person? does that change the ranking?

i personally think we are sooooo beyond the idea that the internet isn't "real" that fucking someone via webcam & keyboard is most definitely a betrayal of a committed relationship. i can't imagine an argument that would make me think otherwise.

i absolutley agree.

if my b/f was having some online relationship of anykind, wheather it be cybering, webcam sex or just online dating sites i would be very angry, just as he would be if that were me.

i think the bottom line is that you have to be on the same page about it, which is why i am so lucky that me and my guy feel the same way about it. we are honest and open about everything and i we both feel very strongly about fidelity.
 
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