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By Far, the worst birthday of my life....

SPACEMAN

TRIBE Member
My birthday consisted of several letdowns, not just in one day, but more so over the last month. All day has just been the icing on the cake.

I'm going through such a major life change right now, it seems as though my whole world that I've known for the last two years is collapsing around me and there's nowhere or noone to turn to. I just smoked a big fatty, and though I'm stoned, I'm all alone. Today I turned 26....by myself. No family, no friends, noone anywhere around to say...hey man, happy birthday. Wanna go out? This is by far, the worst birthday of my life.

Oh well, I think I'll just go sulk now.

spaceman

looking for a little sympathy.. go fish.
 

deep

TRIBE Member
Happy birthday Andre, for what it's worth. Things will eventually get back on track, such is the way of things.
 

vinder

TRIBE Member
happy birthday andre. if it's any consolation, my day hasn't been much better.

cheers to you dude, and i hope everything works out for you.
 
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OTIS

TRIBE Member
Andre I can only imagine what your going through..

but like deep said.. things will even out..

Life is like that.. ups downs never constant, always creating equilibrium.

This is just one of them low times.. the key is riding it out, that's what creates strength of character.
 

OTIS

TRIBE Member
oh and another point for next year..
ICQ is a good way to ensure people remember your birthday as it reminds everyone on your contact list at least 50 times prior to the date. ;)

chin up mang.
 

joey

TRIBE Member
happy birthday mate

if it makes you feel any better i sat around most of the weekend as well, i even drank by myself...
 

jus me

TRIBE Member
Happy Birthday Andre! :)

Although I don't know you, we have the same b-day!

I hope life gets better for ya :(...and you always have people to turn to, TRIBE!
 
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Cheer Bear

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Yeah, when in doubt, turn to tribe. ;)


happy birthday hun. now i want to smoke a joint.

hmmm...where's my brother?.....
 

Temper Tantrum

TRIBE Member
Happy birthday sweetheart. And keep your head above water. When the shit hits the fan, it always hits it all at once, so you seem to get pounded with one bad thing after another. You just have to remember that change is a constant, and that as shitty as you feel right now this is only a -temporary- thing. You will come out of this tough time a stronger and wiser person.

If I were in Tdot I would be dragging your ass out right now for a cheer-up beer and some conversation, but I'm not. Mayhaps next weekend? (I'm home for easter) my jacket and backpack are still at your place.

"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."
-Helen Keller

~allie~
 

Plato

TRIBE Member
my birthday was also pretty much forgotten & spent in solitude this year, but i've learnt to try to focus on the positive things that the last year has brought and all that awaits the new year.

i've yet to receive any presents from my immediate family, a birthday card, or some sort of birthday celebration from them.

my sister broke up with her bf recently, since she's been kinda down she gets presents up the wazuu!
yeah, not fair. :s

buying presents for one's self also helps alleviate and forget any pain.
oh purty new shiny objects...

things do get better for ya, so heres hoping you feel better this week.

h a p p y b i r t h d a y !
:)

p[l]a+0
 
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ThePlunger

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Happy Birthday Andre!!!:D

Sorry to hear you're feeling so down. I think we all know about the whole shit-storm around you right now. Don't let the pressure get you down. You have helped create something really big in our scene over the past few years. Creativity, progression, and the real feeling of PLUR. Please don't feel dismayed or hurt. I know you and your crew will pull through.

Peace:)

Matt
 

starr

TRIBE Member
aw, Andre thanx for the nice words...

you know i'd take you out if i wasn't studying for that damn test!
trust me everything will even out - it always does.
pick a day after tuesday and i'm sure laura and i will represent :)

until then HAPPY (now belated) BIRTHDAY!
 

rejenerate

TRIBE Member
Wow. Um. I relate.

I also turn 26 today. I had fun last night but got dragged out of bed today for a 60-person birthday party for my grandmother (hers was yesterday...thanks, family). Yes, I was acknowledged, but I was tired and bored.

Got home later than expected, rushed around, got ready...went to an Oscar party at a bar and like, the majority of my friends didn't end up up coming. Then I went clubbing after, saw a few of them (various elements came into play that kept other friends from being there...sucks, but I understand. At least they let me know in advance).

The topper was seeing my ex that I broke up with last week. No acknowledgement whatsoever, in any way, shape, or form, of my birthday. Wow, do I feel special.

So I'm giving you a great big virtual hug...I need a real hug right now *sigh*. My friends gave me lots of hugs earlier but I just needed to get away from my ex...the whole thing has put me in such a sour mood.

This month has also sucked for me too. I hope and pray that things will turn around and I'll be better-adjusted soon.

~jen
 
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Bumbaclat

TRIBE Member
what can I say?? sorry man... If Michelle calls me, I'll go wild for your birthday..

Last year I got thrown out of 2 bars in a row for my B-day. fuck 'em


Bumbaclat
 

MoFo

TRIBE Member
So why hasn't anyone offered to get a busload of people to go sing happy birthday to SPACEMAN???

I wanna have a party for Spaceman. Let's do Crammin' in the Closet 3 with special guest, SPACEMAN!

DOOD! That is so fucking bad that you had to spend your birthday like that. It seemed like it really got to you. What's tha matta with you??? We all gots PM boxes!

Drink, on me?
 

Cheeka

TRIBE Member
That sucks :( - I'm really sorry to hear that.
I hope that you have a great night this week to make up for it!!

Don't let it get you down... they are overrated most of the time anyway!
I hope you feel much better soon :)!
 

Adam Duke

TRIBE Member
Happy b-lated b-day to both of you!

Andre, you shoulda called man....there was a party we coulda gone to with women wrestlers!

@m.
 
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