So, through no real fault of my own, I've had several friends "break up with me", because of perceived bad influence.
In some cases, it's been their GFs who make a condition that they will not continue dating the person unless they promise to not hang out with me...
In other cases, it's been a self induced distance because of my over indulgences.. This case I can understand and work towards relieving it..
In other cases it's a mix of sexual conduct. In other cases it's vehicular accidents or waking up and realising one has crossed a personal drug boundary.
Whatever the case, I'd like to extend an olive branch and iterate that "Hey all, I'm not that bad, please don't hate me!" and say also "There are ways we can still get along!"
I find it personally painful each time this happens. I invested a lot of time and often money in you, so you don't need to be a stranger!
The most recent case involves a guy, who is not on tribe, and an accident he incurred. The accident (vehicular) was not my fault! Everything was wonderful until that point. I don't know, maybe he got a DUI for that... But he's a really good guy and my life is missing out without him in it as he pursues life 2.0...
The other stories involve people from tribe so I don't want to talk about that.
-jM
A&D
In some cases, it's been their GFs who make a condition that they will not continue dating the person unless they promise to not hang out with me...
In other cases, it's been a self induced distance because of my over indulgences.. This case I can understand and work towards relieving it..
In other cases it's a mix of sexual conduct. In other cases it's vehicular accidents or waking up and realising one has crossed a personal drug boundary.
Whatever the case, I'd like to extend an olive branch and iterate that "Hey all, I'm not that bad, please don't hate me!" and say also "There are ways we can still get along!"
I find it personally painful each time this happens. I invested a lot of time and often money in you, so you don't need to be a stranger!
The most recent case involves a guy, who is not on tribe, and an accident he incurred. The accident (vehicular) was not my fault! Everything was wonderful until that point. I don't know, maybe he got a DUI for that... But he's a really good guy and my life is missing out without him in it as he pursues life 2.0...
The other stories involve people from tribe so I don't want to talk about that.
-jM
A&D