i've been single for some time now and though i date here and there i simply haven't found someone who i've clicked with enough to get into anything serious.
i guess what bothers me is that i've had more than a few friends tell me that i'm simply being too picky when they ask me why i'm not with anyone. ...that i shouldn't be looking for ms. perfect (trust me... i'm a realist... there is no such thing as perfect) and give girls more of a chance before ending things.
maybe i simply don't want to settle for someone who doesn't fulfill me the way i'd like to be. is there anything wrong with that? is there anything wrong with being somewhat 'picky'? i say why settle for mediocrity? if it's not there then it's just not there... just the way i see it...
i guess i can't understand how people can be in a relationship out of the need for companionship or sex when other things are lacking. your thoughts?
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i guess what bothers me is that i've had more than a few friends tell me that i'm simply being too picky when they ask me why i'm not with anyone. ...that i shouldn't be looking for ms. perfect (trust me... i'm a realist... there is no such thing as perfect) and give girls more of a chance before ending things.
maybe i simply don't want to settle for someone who doesn't fulfill me the way i'd like to be. is there anything wrong with that? is there anything wrong with being somewhat 'picky'? i say why settle for mediocrity? if it's not there then it's just not there... just the way i see it...
i guess i can't understand how people can be in a relationship out of the need for companionship or sex when other things are lacking. your thoughts?
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