Right there are 2 girls that i have been kinda chatting with in my programme and i think they both like me but......
I can never really tell though. I am really really dense at this stuff.
My older brother once told me that I would not be able to tell if a girl liked me unless she was sitting on my lap stoking my hair. Even then i would still wonder if perhaps she just wanted a place to sit and that my hair needed fixing!!
what can i say i am dense or stupid or just well stupid
But then on the other hand sometimes alot of things can be misinterpreted as being an attraction which might simply be the action of being friendly. Or conversly when you like someone you can interpret alot of simple actions as them being attraction.
right so here is girl number 1
she is super cute in my programme likes travelling and i really really like her.
here are the signs that i get
- when ever i am walking on campus or in the library she will go waaaaaaay out of her way to chat with me. I mean across the class room or like walks across the libray to come have a chat and she seems always super super happy to see me.
- she told me how i am the only quy with any fashion sense in our department or indeeed our whole faculty. Which is somewhat true and i have been told this before by other girls. so this is a not so much an statement of attraction but perhaps a simple uttering of the truth hahaha
- she always seems really interested in what i am talking about even if it is really boring such as an explanation of my research proposal on the linkages between transport infrastructure and regional economic development and cultural dispersion. Which i think is quite interesting actually but not too many others do especially the statisitcal side but... i digress
- she seems to keep making excuses to want to come and chat me up. such as me helping her with stupid explantions of economic geography
- she gets really excited about somewhat irrelvant common interests such as our shared wasting of time on ebay and went so far as to say jokingly that she loved me due to our common interests.
- she laffs at all my stupid jokes ones that are not even funny or so i would think
- she invited me out to this thing at the uni and was super happy i was going to go
However, I think alot of this can be very easliy misinterpreted. Firstly, some people are generally very friendly and will walk across a massive field to come say hi. Secondly some people just have a general happy mood and thus one can interpret thier being happy as not actual attraction but infact just thier personality. Excitment over common interests is not much to infer i would think, irrelevant interests or not. Perhaps my topics of discussion on geography are quite interesting to other geographers. Finally, i am in a faculty filled with dirty hippies and tree hugging vegbians and dirty snowboarders. Getting the odd hair cut and wearing cologne and buying relativly posh clothes places you in well dressed classification. Finally, perhaps she has no one to go with to this thing and so she invited me out of necessity not necessarliy interest. hmmmmmmm quite possible really
Thus now that i think about there is not much really there when you think about it.
Right girl number 2 i met quite recently but..... whatever
Right she is native ( Wooooooo whoooooo) and a thai boxer and
- when i first me her she was super shy and did not say much. Shyness amoung aboriginal women i have found means they like you alot. As many aboriginal women are very forward well ones brought up in the culture anyways. That and she kept on looking at me or so my friend mat told me
-that and she bit her lip several times and was kinda fidgity when i was talking with her. i saw this thing on TLC how that is a sign about sexual attraction or neverousness which would also be a sign.
- when we found out we have a common interest in muay thai she seemed really excited about it and wanted me to join with her
- she asked me if i had contacts on and then proceeded to tell me i have beautiful eyes( which i do so
)
- she kept on touching me during our conversation
- when she found out that i snowboard as well she got super excited and asked me if would teach her and like gave me her phone number etc...
But i sorta think "ehhh you know what she probably just wants to learn how to snowboard". Also some people give out thier numbers very easliy i would think if perhaps there is a utility associatied with it. Furthermore, i do have nice eyes or so i have been told by others. So that does not really say much ethier. With respect to the excitment over interests well i get the same way if i find someone who likes muay thai as well. Moreover, shyness is natural when you first meet someone and one cannot infer much over that. Also with respect to the lip biting and fidigiting well who knows possible she had an itichy lip or something. Finally, some people are also just very touchy feely.
Right so from my thoughts on the matter. I personally dont think ethier of them have much interest. In that if you think about it in a right context, there is a logical explantion for all the supposed signs of attraction.
Many of my friends dont think so but.... they are guyz who know very little.
Indeed many guyz i know would assume that a simple hello is an sign of attrraction. Its sad really when you think about.
However, like i said though i am somewhat on the opposite end of the spectrum in this respect. In that it takes very blatent and open signs for me to clue in. Furthermore even with open blatency i can still not get it
right
ok lets here your thoughts them am i righ or are my friends right on this
swilly
I can never really tell though. I am really really dense at this stuff.
My older brother once told me that I would not be able to tell if a girl liked me unless she was sitting on my lap stoking my hair. Even then i would still wonder if perhaps she just wanted a place to sit and that my hair needed fixing!!
what can i say i am dense or stupid or just well stupid
But then on the other hand sometimes alot of things can be misinterpreted as being an attraction which might simply be the action of being friendly. Or conversly when you like someone you can interpret alot of simple actions as them being attraction.
right so here is girl number 1
she is super cute in my programme likes travelling and i really really like her.
here are the signs that i get
- when ever i am walking on campus or in the library she will go waaaaaaay out of her way to chat with me. I mean across the class room or like walks across the libray to come have a chat and she seems always super super happy to see me.
- she told me how i am the only quy with any fashion sense in our department or indeeed our whole faculty. Which is somewhat true and i have been told this before by other girls. so this is a not so much an statement of attraction but perhaps a simple uttering of the truth hahaha
- she always seems really interested in what i am talking about even if it is really boring such as an explanation of my research proposal on the linkages between transport infrastructure and regional economic development and cultural dispersion. Which i think is quite interesting actually but not too many others do especially the statisitcal side but... i digress
- she seems to keep making excuses to want to come and chat me up. such as me helping her with stupid explantions of economic geography
- she gets really excited about somewhat irrelvant common interests such as our shared wasting of time on ebay and went so far as to say jokingly that she loved me due to our common interests.
- she laffs at all my stupid jokes ones that are not even funny or so i would think
- she invited me out to this thing at the uni and was super happy i was going to go
However, I think alot of this can be very easliy misinterpreted. Firstly, some people are generally very friendly and will walk across a massive field to come say hi. Secondly some people just have a general happy mood and thus one can interpret thier being happy as not actual attraction but infact just thier personality. Excitment over common interests is not much to infer i would think, irrelevant interests or not. Perhaps my topics of discussion on geography are quite interesting to other geographers. Finally, i am in a faculty filled with dirty hippies and tree hugging vegbians and dirty snowboarders. Getting the odd hair cut and wearing cologne and buying relativly posh clothes places you in well dressed classification. Finally, perhaps she has no one to go with to this thing and so she invited me out of necessity not necessarliy interest. hmmmmmmm quite possible really
Thus now that i think about there is not much really there when you think about it.
Right girl number 2 i met quite recently but..... whatever
Right she is native ( Wooooooo whoooooo) and a thai boxer and
- when i first me her she was super shy and did not say much. Shyness amoung aboriginal women i have found means they like you alot. As many aboriginal women are very forward well ones brought up in the culture anyways. That and she kept on looking at me or so my friend mat told me
-that and she bit her lip several times and was kinda fidgity when i was talking with her. i saw this thing on TLC how that is a sign about sexual attraction or neverousness which would also be a sign.
- when we found out we have a common interest in muay thai she seemed really excited about it and wanted me to join with her
- she asked me if i had contacts on and then proceeded to tell me i have beautiful eyes( which i do so
)- she kept on touching me during our conversation
- when she found out that i snowboard as well she got super excited and asked me if would teach her and like gave me her phone number etc...
But i sorta think "ehhh you know what she probably just wants to learn how to snowboard". Also some people give out thier numbers very easliy i would think if perhaps there is a utility associatied with it. Furthermore, i do have nice eyes or so i have been told by others. So that does not really say much ethier. With respect to the excitment over interests well i get the same way if i find someone who likes muay thai as well. Moreover, shyness is natural when you first meet someone and one cannot infer much over that. Also with respect to the lip biting and fidigiting well who knows possible she had an itichy lip or something. Finally, some people are also just very touchy feely.
Right so from my thoughts on the matter. I personally dont think ethier of them have much interest. In that if you think about it in a right context, there is a logical explantion for all the supposed signs of attraction.
Many of my friends dont think so but.... they are guyz who know very little.
Indeed many guyz i know would assume that a simple hello is an sign of attrraction. Its sad really when you think about.
However, like i said though i am somewhat on the opposite end of the spectrum in this respect. In that it takes very blatent and open signs for me to clue in. Furthermore even with open blatency i can still not get it
right
ok lets here your thoughts them am i righ or are my friends right on this
swilly
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