Hey doods, is kissing on the lips more intimate, in a sense, than sexual activities? In a guy-to-guy context though. Put yourself in bi-curious shoes for a second.
Yes, I have to learn to stop being involved with "straight" guys (another thread altogether) but I've had three separate guys so far tell me that they'll perform oral, have me perform on them, mutually satisfy each other but will not kiss me cuz it's too "intimate." One of them even came out and he still won't kiss much. His "girlfriend" also got fed up with it and they broke up.
And I quote, "I will kiss you ANYWHERE on your body, just not your lips, ok?" I think it's surreal. But I'm wondering if you were going to do a guy-to-guy thing, would kissing be crossing some line?
Yes, I have to learn to stop being involved with "straight" guys (another thread altogether) but I've had three separate guys so far tell me that they'll perform oral, have me perform on them, mutually satisfy each other but will not kiss me cuz it's too "intimate." One of them even came out and he still won't kiss much. His "girlfriend" also got fed up with it and they broke up.
And I quote, "I will kiss you ANYWHERE on your body, just not your lips, ok?" I think it's surreal. But I'm wondering if you were going to do a guy-to-guy thing, would kissing be crossing some line?