A public apology for being a drama queen...

[MoFo]

I am sorry for being so fucking emotional and for my need for attention.

I think I've been really drama-ish with A LOT of people on here (on the board and in our personal relationships) and I apologize.

Every day, I realize I am more and more like Sarah Jessica Parker in Sex in the City. Her and I are absolutely the same! Which scares me.

And every guy I've "dealt" with is like Mr. Big to me.

So it's been a rough year. And I am not ever gonna spew shit like "men are assholes" anymore. It's not worth it anymore.

 

[MoFo]

What do people think about the dynamic that happens on here?

I get pegged as attention-starved but.. aren't we all if we post ANYTHING? Is it so wrong to want drama? Isn't being passive and laid-back kinda boring?

Or am I just a diva queen? LOL

 

[MoFo]

Wait, now I'm being a drama queen about being a drama queen...

ugh...

back to work, I go.

 

[el presidente Highsteppa]

I think everyone is guilty of this at one point or another. The adulation of others, even if it is somewhat anonymous, is still very appealing.

Don't feel bad Sunny, just get over it

James

 

[Plato]

i am not an attention whore
i am an acknowledgement skank.

but yeah, everyone is one to certain extents. just cause we dont post about our sex lives doesnt mean we dont do some happy dance when our thread with some silly link or our post in the pic thread gets a response.


now back to sweet techno electro

p[l]a+0

 

[MoFo]

I can't get over it when there's people involved who haven't "forgiven" me. Sometimes I feel like I'm just being a nuisance when I tell them how they're making me feel.

 

[el presidente Highsteppa]

Originally posted by MoFo
I can't get over it when there's people involved who haven't "forgiven" me. Sometimes I feel like I'm just being a nuisance when I tell them how they're making me feel.

Isn't that what you're apologizing for, but on a smaller scale?

From the Ministry of things will work themselves out. Some people aren't very approachable either.

Prime Minister Highsteppa

 

[Plato]

(insert words here to make you feel better and stop giving a shit over what fuckheads do to you & treat you)

p[l]a+0

 

[air-bag]

Originally posted by MoFo
And I am not ever gonna spew shit like "men are assholes" anymore. It's not worth it anymore.

thank you
quite frankly i was getting tired of it
and annoyed.

but that kind of a personal level matter should be kept to PM/ICQ/Phone... not a public message board. <-- Something you should remember.

 

[geminigirl]

Originally posted by MoFo
Wait, now I'm being a drama queen about being a drama queen...

LOL

 

[~Loress~]

Originally posted by MoFo
I am sorry for being so fucking emotional and for my need for attention.

I think I've been really drama-ish with A LOT of people on here (on the board and in our personal relationships) and I apologize.

Every day, I realize I am more and more like Sarah Jessica Parker in Sex in the City. Her and I are absolutely the same! Which scares me.

And every guy I've "dealt" with is like Mr. Big to me.

So it's been a rough year. And I am not ever gonna spew shit like "men are assholes" anymore. It's not worth it anymore.

HEY! There's nothing wrong with Sarah Jessica Parker!

Sunny, don't apologize! Nobody is perfect...

~Lori

 

[mingster]

I too, would like to apologize.

I'm sorry that I don't think you're a drama queen.

I just don't get it. It doesn't bother me in the least bit. I think you make the board interesting. Maybe it's cause I'm an attention whore myself. But honestly, what's the big fucking deal? I find you polite, fair and reasonable. Your not rude when you argue with people and you can handle critisism, which is more than I can say for some people on this board. It just leaves me puzzled when yourself or others allude to the notion of you being a drama queen. I just don't see it. Maybe I do, but it doesn't bother me. Iunno.

Anyways Sunny, you just keep doing whatever it is you wanna do. And don't apologize for it. I've recently learned that there is no need to apologize for just being yourself, and just doing things that are you. You'll find, as I'm sure you have, the people who can appreciate it.

Ming.

 

[Rosey]

Originally posted by MoFo
.....

the irony of this is that by apologizing in this fashion you are perpetuating any queenishness that you may have been exhibiting. oh well.

c'est la vie.

 

[Jeffsus]

spewing shit like mens assholes, what?

 

[Guest]

Some words from one of my clients for Sunny and anyone else who actually gives a shit what people think:

The fear of criticism can be paralyzing. It can prevent you from taking risks, from being yourself, and from enjoying life.

There will always be “small thinkers” in the world who will want to knock you down with their criticism. Don't waste your energy trying to figure out why they criticize you - it's an unsolvable puzzle with missing pieces. Instead, invest your energy searching for people who inspire you, believe in you, and accept you for who you are. (And, there are some people who won't like you no matter what you do. You can't please everybody.)

Instead of narrowing in on criticism, step back and take a look at the bigger picture. Take time to celebrate the things that you did right. Take time to remember your accomplishments.

But don't ignore all the bad comments you receive. Sometimes, hidden in criticism, you will discover some very valuable feedback that will help you to grow. However, keep in mind that one criticism, no matter how right or wrong it is, is never the entire story.

(This cheesy post was brought to you by the letter E.)

 

[jeffpayne]

I don't know you but maybe you should stop watching 'Sex and the City'

 

[dj_jake_the_snake]

Thank the fucking lord that you are going to stop! Jesus christ man if someone tells you sometihng in secret keep it a secret.

have a friend you can talk to about your problems but not 20 friends over drinks and then 50 more in a one on one session. it gets boring and needy

i'm sure there will be someone who thinks that i'm now an asshole for saying it but i know that in the end it isn't healthy to go telling everyone your problems because people are busy dealing with their own. and if you keep spewing out all the bad stuff you can really forget about the good.

hey sunny doesn't your favourite character say "there's so much beauty in the world i just can't take it"? Well it is time to face the music and focus on the beauty.

cheers

 

[MoFo]

^^^
I do. And maybe that's my problem. I find beauty in conflict. In drama.

 

[MoFo]

Originally posted by dj_jake_the_snake
Thank the fucking lord that you are going to stop! Jesus christ man if someone tells you sometihng in secret keep it a secret.

have a friend you can talk to about your problems but not 20 friends over drinks and then 50 more in a one on one session. it gets boring and needy



cheers

Another thing I find is I am a very candid, blunt person. I don't really believe in secrets unless they straight out tell me, "Yo! I don't want anyone knowing this."

I mean, there are INFINITE things I don't talk about but there are also a lot of things that I don't really consider a "secret" but the majority does. Like, if I wanna talk about someone's butt sweat, I do. If I think someone has a bad toupee, I tell them.

Not because I wanna offend them or insult them. But because I love them so much that I can be honest with them. Even if they don't want to change their bad toupee (for example), I can accept that and never speak of it again.

Maybe I'm just too honest.

 

[Rosey]

Originally posted by MoFo

Another thing I find is I am a very candid, blunt person. I don't really believe in secrets unless they straight out tell me, "Yo! I don't want anyone knowing this."

eventually people learn to decide between being the centre of attention for a minute because they've got the news and being a trusted and valued friend. it's called maturity.

 

[Adam Duke]

BZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!

@m.

 

[Plato]

is that chris tucker??
what the hell is going on in that picture!?



p[l]a+0

 

[Rosey]

he's hiding behind some smoking rubble that the baddies just shot up on the space station in the 5th element.

good god i am so in love with mila's titties in that movie. perfect? and how.

 

[SUNKIST]

sunny dont appologize. if people dont like they way you are, fuck em. no big deal. i love you exactly the way you are.

 

[Mr_Furious]

You shouldn't really have to apologise, I'm always surprised by the amount of useful knowledge that this message board is able to provide, both philosophical and general.

The way I see it, posting on a message board allows a meduim where you can get up to a hundred different opinions at one time, and anyone that makes slanderous remarks about a persons personal issues or the way they conduct their personal issues lacks class.