Discussion in 'TRIBE Main Forum' started by The Watcher, Feb 6, 2002.
Just something I could never figure out... could someone please enlighten me on this?
Better question is why are so many guys assholes?
Don't stress over it, that's just the way it is. It's all about the attitude.
I consider myself a nice guy and if a woman doesn't like me for that, then fuck em.
although I must admit, I've taken the bad boy approach before and it's worked like a charm. but still, I'd rather just be myself.
that is a better question
and i dont think most girls know that they are assholes when they start going out with them
That is very true!
Man are like toilet stalls.
All the good ones are taken, and the rest are full of shit.
it's a challenge. like the taming of the asshole until he's been whittled down to a precious little ray of sunshine is sport for females.
but I wouldn't know anything about this, because my boyfriend is the sweetest.
LOL Thats a great analogy Mel.
I've got all sorts of "Girl+Friends" that introduce me to their new BF to see what I think, and I am always blunt in my critic. I am 99% dead on. 3 out of 4 guys that my friends go out with are AssHoles...
I cant Judge someone pretty accuratly by meeting them for 5 minutes... why cant girls?
I love my Girl+Friends, and I want them to get the very best... but they always make poor decisions.
they're perfect. we unleash our *insane women* actions on them, we get tired and sick of it all, and find the nice men to settle down with.
simple as that.
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. It's kinda like a rite of passage that some girls go through. To see if they can tame the wild animal, if they can get him to love her more than his bad ass ways.
It's hard for guys to understand. But I've been through it, as many of my girlfriends have. And most of the time, girls come out stronger, wiser and better equipt. Plus, they learn alot about themselves in situations like that.
Cause she loves me
Why is it that when you are nice to most girls in a relationship they either walk all over you or leave you for an asshole?
jeremy -the other perspective- jive
I see your point... I am the one that they call at 3 in the morning after going through what I predicted would happen, I was just wondering if there was a way to save the step of the 3 am call.
-Nick- Listening is what I am good at and all, but 3am is a hell of a time to be defusing a relationship or a heartache when I work at 8 am.
Cause they aren't ready yet.
They haven't satisfyed the hunger of taming the animal.
If you don't give a shit you will get the girl forsure!
If you care you will get your heart broken!
If we're going to get into moronic gender stereotyping, way too many women think they're absolutely infallible goddesses who should have a lot more than they deserve.
Let's all be fucking retarded.
Call them at 3am and tell them the truth about there new boyfriend.....they might listen then
I guess you could decide not to be the guy that they call at 3am, but in the end, you might be glad you stayed that guy. I have friends like that, and I appreciate every word that they have shared with me.
This is what will make you the winnar! Seriously.
Because some people (men & women) subconsciously like to be treated like piece's of shit.
Just like all men think they should have a 6' blond with 38D breasts......hold on a second......I do have one of those
1) Assholes seem more honest. Nice guys always disappoint in the end as they can never maintain the image forever. Your only as good as your last mistake, for a nice guy every mistake haunts for an asshole they're irrelevent.
2) Assholes are willing to pursue her and say the lines she wants hear regardless of their truth. Assholes aren't scared of hurting her or letting her get hurt. Personally I've got all the little sisters I'll ever need so I've simply stopped accepting women who want to treat me like there big brother.
3) Assholes have imperfections she'll try to spend time changing. A diamond in the rough seems all that more brilliant when it shines. A fake diamond only loses its luster and its appeal over time. At a certain level she's going to try to get you to ditch the friends she doesn't like, she's going to ditch the outfits she doesn't like. An asshole just provides a better pet project then someone who come pre assembled.
4) Some women love drama!!! Assholes provide drama and nice guys are just a source of pain in the ass. Nice guys are also a pain in the ass to look at after the shit settles. Nobody likes to look at someone who can respond "I told you so" to there current circumstance.
5) Assholes tend to exude self confidance and strength, nice guys tend to come off as wimps. Nice guys actually care about her opinion and how she feels, they'll lie by default because of this.
6) PERCEPTION!!! If your going out with a girl I actually like your going to have to be one of the nicest fucking guys on earth for me to not think of you as an asshole. Every mistake you make is going to be magnified in my perception, everytime you hurt her its going to hurt me. Thus the guy is an asshole by default he'll never be able to live up to what I thought of myself.
There are more but I find you can generally lump it into one of these six.
what's an AssWhole?
*please no goatse answers*
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