i flatiron my hair every three or four days, i have baby hairs around my hairline as well as breakaways and no matter what angle i work the flatiron they always end up standing straight out. i hate to go over and over them with the iron because it just makes it worse. i have tried all kinds of smoothing serums and stuff but none seem to do the job that i want; to make them lie down and go with the flow of the rest of my hair, without making my head too oily or greasy. solutions??????????