how do you deal with your ex fucking someone else?

Discussion in 'TRIBE Main Forum' started by smile, Mar 2, 2002.

  1. SUNKIST

    SUNKIST TRIBE Member

    werd.
    and smile...with this new information into your situation, it just sounds like you dont want to share. and you shouldnt. you arent together anymore, you want the benefits of physical pleasure though, but she cant be dating anyone else. in any event, it sounds like its not going to be too healthy..dont involve yourself in something like that...i think it would be in your best interest to stop sleeping with her there are too many emotions involved, and no matter how much you tell yourself you can handle it, you probably wont be able to.
     
  2. Zer0G

    Zer0G Well-Known Member

    General alert: this one is in love with herself. Hey and if she fucks herself it’s all good as long as we can all watch.
     
  3. Deus

    Deus TRIBE Member

    I agree with that. I also think that status hierarchy for males is a very sensitive issue. Males are very competitive, and like to think of themselves as being better than others, higher on the ladder. If a woman, which originally liked you and is now going out with another male, then that says that she prefers someone else over you. This puts you lower in the hierarchy and might be the cause of low self-esteem.
     
  4. LOL

    From the Ministry of spectator sports

    Prime Minister Highsteppa
     
  5. DJAlchemy

    DJAlchemy TRIBE Promoter

    dude it sucks but really there nothing you can do about it. Although I think that telling the guy to suck it up, etc. is kinda harsh thats really about the only thing you can do. Get some distance for a while so it can all sink in. I know its tough especially if you still have unresolved feelings for her but shes ready to move on with her life and you have to be able to take that step as well.

    hope that helps... I should be a fuckin expert on this subject by now!

    Peace & love. D
     
  6. Cheer Bear

    Cheer Bear TRIBE Member

    He's like...the John Madden of TRIBE.

    Giving us a play by play.
     
  7. DJAlchemy

    DJAlchemy TRIBE Promoter

    jeez I wish I read the entire thread!

    If you guys ever want to be friends I would suggest putting an end to the 'fuck friends' thing. Sure the sex is great, probably the best its ever been, but its just going to stir too many emotions and you won't be able to let go. I wouldn't recommend dwelling too much on the relationship that the two of you had becasue any future relationship (firends or otherwise) is going to be completely different.

    Peace & love. D
     
  8. 905IVE Crew

    905IVE Crew TRIBE Promoter

    well, if you've known him a long time and he's like this, he sure isn't a friend....so knock him out.
     
  9. deep

    deep TRIBE Member

    don't bother with the knock out shit. only makes you look impotent because they're still going to fuck even after you knock him out.

    best way to get over an ex is with the next.
     
  10. Zer0G

    Zer0G Well-Known Member

    So like knock out the next? Fuck'n eh!
     
  11. BreakzBroad

    BreakzBroad Well-Known Member

    u just got o deal with it. she is your ex. :)

    *jen*
     
  12. [​IMG]

    From the Ministry of YOU GOT KNOCKED THE FUCK OUT!!!

    Prime Minister Highsteppa
     
  13. smile

    smile Well-Known Member

    thank you, all.

    man, i wish this shit would die, i've said too much.

    <<< last post>>>
     
  14. BreakzBroad

    BreakzBroad Well-Known Member

    haha. i'd expect this coming from mr. muscle man who can probably take every down!!! :)

    *jen*
     
  15. Wunderbar

    Wunderbar Well-Known Member


    :eek: :eek: :eek:

    You should go on Oprah as Dr. Deep. Good stuff.
     
  16. under18

    under18 TRIBE Member

    SMILE you need to CHILL

    she probably fucked someone else before you.... and she is definately going to fuck many more after you! just try not to PICTURE it ! (ack..... that sucks!) ....

    i am in the exact same position as you (well.... very close) ... and its not fair at all to be sortof in her life but sortof not.. and then trying to be all up in her sex life like its your business...

    i actually had a nightmare that my ex had a new gf who was short with dark brown hair !!!! (exact opposite of me!) ..... aaaahhhh ... and i told him about it (im a dumbass) ..

    maybe yall 2 should just stop talking cause its hurting you and probably her too...

    the thing that sucks most is you probably cant be friends ever again cause there are so many emotions involved - its like that for me and my ex too.... whenever we try to talk we are just yelling at eachother ... they say its cause im french ;)

    so you just need to take a real break - not see eachother or talk to eachother for a while.. and if its really real, then you'll know cause even after so much time not talking - you can come back together like nothing ever happenned ...

    trust me i know its crazy cause i dont usually trip over a guy either, but for some reason i thought i found that person you're supposed to find.. that one person kinda thing.... and then i just went and fucked it up .. :(

    -c-

    ps. contact me, i need to talk..
     
  17. twist

    twist TRIBE Member

    strength in numbers. 1.
     
  18. How very zen

    From the Ministry of like it

    Prime Minister Highsteppa
     
  19. twist

    twist TRIBE Member

    It serves me well.

    and on a side note... fuck friends are indeed dangerous but only because the line between friends and more gets blurred. IF you detect even a hint of this you have to drop it and you can always try picking it up later. Casual sex is way to underrated and ignored in our society the things it can teach you are virtually limitless both about you and the opposite sex (through the relationship that will develop as well as the problems you face). I would advise everyone to have at least a couple fuck friends throughout their life. If it wasn't for fuck friends I'd still be a virgin and I wouldn't know a fraction of what I do about girls. It's a level of cool you are many times hard pressed to find in an actual relationship. On the remote chance I ever get married my wife will have been my best friend for a long time before she's my wife.
     
  20. Silverback

    Silverback TRIBE Member

    When plagued with this problem, the only thing that helps is time, unfortunately it's not a desirable answer. But time is the only thing that really heals relationship type problems. There is no quick answer or quick solution.
     
  21. ~Loress~

    ~Loress~ TRIBE Member

    I didn't bother reading through this thread, but what I have to say is this.... IT COULD BE WORSE! How do you deal with your boyfriend/girlfriend fucking someone else? Now that SUCKS! At least its your ex.... and they're you're ex for a reason. There's obviously still feelings present and its going to be hard, but you'll come out a stronger person if you just deal with it and move on. You'll be thinking of someone else (or fucking them) in no time! :D

    ~Lori
     
  22. rswbrixton

    rswbrixton TRIBE Member

    Fuck somebody else With her .
     
  23. ~Loress~

    ~Loress~ TRIBE Member

    haha....nice one! That could work! :D

    ~Lori <------spring is in the air *evil grin*
     

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