girl on girl action!

Discussion in 'TRIBE Main Forum' started by smile, Feb 5, 2002.

  1. HappyJR

    HappyJR TRIBE Member

    So you're saying that monogamy is the grown up way?

    I'm not so sure about that...

    I'm not saying you're wrong... I just haven't decided yet.

    Besides, most guys when growing up just want to fuck anything that moves... Women, I've found have somewhat different motivation for it...

    well... Those are generalizations... But... they fit, to a degree.
     
  2. Housey D

    Housey D TRIBE Member

    What's the difference between that and if she was fucking a guy?
    If you guys are in a serious relationship, isn't that just cheating?
     
  3. Subsonic Chronic

    Subsonic Chronic TRIBE Member

    meh... as long as I feel secure in my relationship... then the turned on factor of it far outweighs, and totally negates, any feelings of jealousy.

    Pete
     
  4. CC

    CC TRIBE Member

    cheating is cheating in my books. if both people in the relationship are comfortable having that sort of open relationship, then that's great. anything done behind someone's back however, would be truely wrong. some people wouldn't be able to deal with it very well, and other couples would handle it with ease. such a sticky situation. but it must be openly discussed.

    CC
     
  5. skyparty

    skyparty TRIBE Member

    EXACTLY.

    i mean, i love women, and the guys i'm with understand that i will say how hot and sexy a chick is! and they can do the same... if i'm *with* the guy, i will not act on those desires.

    and by all means, honesty rules.

    narissa [​IMG]
     
  6. skyparty

    skyparty TRIBE Member

    --and i will never have a relationship with a women--

    i just like to play [​IMG]

    narissa [​IMG]
     
  7. Ditto Much

    Ditto Much TRIBE Member

    It would seem selfish of her to me. Not to say I wouldn't be able to get over it, but I doubt I'd be cool with it.

    !!!Second question...

    Your girlfriend cheats on you.

    Would you rather it was with another girl or a guy?

    (Personally I'd rather it was a guy, that way you can always go and kick his bitch ass.)
     
  8. Booty Bits

    Booty Bits TRIBE Member

    i completely agree. i think its fishy that so many young, healthy people claim to only have eyes (and dirty, nasty thoughts) for their partner.

    like, are you all dead inside?!

    bah. i need to move to a commune.
     
  9. smile

    smile Well-Known Member

    having dirty thoughts is one thing.

    acting on them is another.
     
  10. PosTMOd

    PosTMOd Well-Known Member

    I don't understand why people get angry at the person who was doing the stuff with their g/f or b/f...

    It's your girlfriend or boyfriend who is the idiot... and they are the one who should have hot pokers inserted anally.
     
  11. PosTMOd

    PosTMOd Well-Known Member

    Exactly right.

    I have often thought about killing people, though I will never do it. Same with having sex with other people... I think about it, but why the hell would I do it?
     
  12. Housey D

    Housey D TRIBE Member

    Why is it fishy? Everyone's different.
     
  13. Booty Bits

    Booty Bits TRIBE Member

    because we live in a highly sexualized (did i just make up that word?) society.

    we are surrounded with images of sex...13 year old girls are dressing like strippers at school...music videos are pretty much soft core porno flicks...you see more skin than clothing when you go out to a club nowadays...

    i just don't understand how someone can take all of it in and ONLY feel sexually attracted to one person.

    like, if you were single, you would find other people attractive. why would it just 'shut off' when you are in a relationship?
    it seems highly unnatural to me.
     
  14. pr0nstar

    pr0nstar TRIBE Member

    BB I don't think it's ever shut off.

    There's always going to be sexually attractive people out there...

    IMO, I think when I'm in a relationship, I'm happy with the person I'm with ... they turn all my cranks sexually. And mentally they do more than others.

    Of course there is always gonna be someone else out there, I would assume.

    But why go searching when you find someone that truly makes you happy?

    pr0nstar
     
  15. Housey D

    Housey D TRIBE Member

    I don't think anyone shuts it off. I'm not sure I understand what you're trying to say though. So a person around our age is in a relationship and they find someone else that is attractive to them, they should just fuck them because they're still young, and should be permiscuous? And that it's bullshit and dishonest if you try and hold back urges?
     
  16. Booty Bits

    Booty Bits TRIBE Member

    no, thats not what i mean.

    never mind. i've done this too many times and it just frustrates me more every time.

    nothing to do with you Housey D... everything to do with me needing to move to a commune with like-minded people.

    tonedeff, hows that trip to Bora Bora comin'?
     
  17. Tonedeff

    Tonedeff TRIBE Member

    translation: I'm a whore, and I use big words to conceal this fact from people with strong family values who have accepted the lord jesus christ as their savior
     
  18. Tonedeff

    Tonedeff TRIBE Member

    just getting my "shots" for the trip this week...then I will send you your ticket for Whora Whora

    p.s. I agree with all you've said of course, as my initial serious post about sexuality as a continuum would suggest
     
  19. SneakyPete

    SneakyPete TRIBE Member

    You're right, it's no different, BUT if they're into that (seeing their partner with someone else), then you can make an argument that it's different.
    A guy maybe into seeing his girl with another girl, therefore gives his consent, making it ok. The same guy may not be into seeing his girl with another guy, so it then considered as cheating.

    I don't know if that made sense or not, but that's my two cents.

    Pete
     
  20. Booty Bits

    Booty Bits TRIBE Member

    mmm continuum... thats hot.

    wanna fuck?
     
  21. CC

    CC TRIBE Member

    the problem i have with this comment is that i truely believe that when i find the right person, i will not be able to have a large attraction to anyone else. maybe a small one, but nothing large. any of the times i've fallen in love i haven't thought at all about anyone else; i was too busy constantly thinking about my girlfriend. if you can't understand that what i'm talking about in having only one true attraction, then you're either different than me, or you haven't found anyone that you've really loved. so maybe i'm just different.

    CC
     
  22. PosTMOd

    PosTMOd Well-Known Member

    Apparently you can't read. Go back and read Booty Bit's posts, and tell us where she said to act on all your desires.

    She said it is stupid to suppress desires, or pretend they are not there... just discuss it with your partner, and if they ain't all right with you doing something about it, don't do it. Pretty simple.
     
  23. pr0nstar

    pr0nstar TRIBE Member

    Well put man..

    pr0nstar
     
  24. Tonedeff

    Tonedeff TRIBE Member

    yes.
     
  25. Subsonic Chronic

    Subsonic Chronic TRIBE Member

    If you're in a relationship with someone, a loving, trusting relationship, then you should be able to express your desire for other people as well as for your partner. You should be able to properly express your feelings is what I'm trying to say.

    If you're both cool with something, (ie: girl is interested in other girls, guy likes the idea too), then why deny yourself the pleasure?

    Idealy you should feel comfortable enough in a relationship that you're not worried that a little harmless experimenting and sexual fun isn't going to tear you apart. Actually... ideally you should be able to talk about it with your partner, be able to express your feelings and take it from there.

    Pete
     

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